Loving someone who doesn't love you...OR being loved by someone you don't love?

for me, i prefer to be loved by someone whom i don't love. i know sooner or later, i will love him too.

that's a difficult problem for a girl,we also hope the two people love each other .and that's the best choose,but no mor lucky for the most people,really if you choose the 2nd,for the short time ,you will feel uncomforatble ,and you should wait for yourself patently,hope some day you love the "being love "one soon,that's the best happiness,and bu the way,if your lover is better and exllenct than your "being loved "one ,can you give up and choose the 2nd one quickly?

I would choose neither since both situations aren't fair for anyone involved. Why would I want to love someone who won't love me back? I would just be tormenting myself for the fact that even if I do like that person, she would definitely be with someone else. Why should I want someone to like me and don't give them what they deserve? I don't want to be guilty about their efforts and all along, don't give them what they expect. It would be nice if me and that person both like each other so that we wouldn't be troubled at all..

it sounds like one really, always needs to be in love. both situations (loving someone who doesn't love you or being loved by someone you don't love) are bad. something is wrong and i don't know with whom. love isn't something one should always have. love and respect for one's self is. it's really bad if this is the situation. imagine a guy putting on a show, a face by loving someone they hardly love or being loved by someone they can't even stomach. it's bad, girl. really bad. sounds desparate. life isn't all about love. life is establishing yourself in a career, life is trying to decipher and control one's emotions, proving your worth as a member of your family, of your community, of your group of friends and many others. without these, you'd also find someone without any of these.

Both options are quite difficult and a difficulty choice. Indeed, love is blind sometimes difficult with the accepted sense, but according to my choice for the options depending on each person which the best for himself or herself.

it's a very interesting discussion for me ,i would like being loved by some one you don't love. i think it is a advisable choose, i don't know why, it is just in my mind,hehe..