spaces in togetherness

hey there akki....well what i think about relationships is that the two people who are related might respond each other differently and their way of communicating is different but there should be mutual understanding between them.....if there isnt any then the relation is no more.....and this mutual understanding forms the base of the different stages in their relation.....some high an d some low.....and yes it is important to give in a relationship but not good to pull back.....i dont think that is good.....there's no reason that one should give up on a relation just like that....even if something goes wrong they should mend the things.....and not just throw away the relationship they had.....

We do have to give our partner the space that he needs because we don't want them suffocated with the relationship. However, it's a delicate decision to make because it depends on the person what "too little space" and "too much space" is. Sometimes I think that I'm being "too close" to my boyfriend, but then he'd ask my why I was pulling away...then I learned that his idea of space isn't how other men define their needed space :) Thanks for the response on my discussion!

Well i think you're talking about the spaces that develop b/w us due to lack of communication..and i know perfectly about this because I've gone through this..It develops empty spaces but if the both really care , the spaces develop the relationship even better and so i think you're very right..