confused
By sunil_008
@sunil_008 (1269)
India
March 10, 2009 3:34pm CST
hi
fewdays back i had started a discussion about miscarriages.i don't know why i started that discussion then.but when members stared sharing their sad stories about miscarriages i didn't feel like participating and responding to them. i don't know why but i felt like i am not the appropriate person to say anything to the participating members. i just do not find words to say anything...
so have you ever started some discussion here and when people started responding to your discussion you didn't feel like the right person to start these all.can anyone suggest me how to handle something like this...
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3 responses
@Margajoe (4709)
• Germany
10 Mar 09
Miscarriages, that is a tough one.
Brave of you to start it, that is for sure.
I think in this case, you just follow your heart.
If you want to respond do.
If you don't then just say: "Thank-you for commenting."
And leave it at that.
I have never been so brave to start a conversation like that.
This is also where the men think different then the women thing too. hahaha!
But, I would just do it this way. Follow your heart.
Or:"Thank-you for commenting."
Good luck.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
12 Mar 09
Hi sunil! The best advice that I can give you about this one is just be prepared. Everyone here is pretty open to anything you are curious about and will answer you in a honest manner. Especially if it touches them personally. I would just be ready for the responses you might recieve.
@messageme (2821)
• United States
11 Mar 09
Just tell them sorry for your lose, I'm glad I'm a male. 
No I am kidding....You really don't have to say anything. There are many discussions where the person that started it don't respond back to the posters. I know that is not you, but maybe this one time it could be. I wrote on that discussion and told my story, but it don't break my heart that you didn't respond. If you have nothing to say then you dont. However, when it is time to pick the best response....that might be tricky 
No I am kidding....You really don't have to say anything. There are many discussions where the person that started it don't respond back to the posters. I know that is not you, but maybe this one time it could be. I wrote on that discussion and told my story, but it don't break my heart that you didn't respond. If you have nothing to say then you dont. However, when it is time to pick the best response....that might be tricky @sunil_008 (1269)
• India
13 Mar 09
hi, i think those women who have gone through such a terrible accident in their life won't be feeling very good about it.though i'll never come to know the pain that they have because of this but i do feel sort of any word to respond to any of them...thanks for responding to both of the discussions...
