Whats the best way to learn to cook?

United States
March 11, 2009 5:18pm CST
I am 23 years old and havent really learned how to cook yet. I took a cooking class in high school but we just made breakfast foods. I was wondering what the best way to learn how to cook is. Is it best to learn from a family member or friends. Does it help to watch those cooking shows on tv and follow their directions. Im thinking about just learning by myself. Does anyone have any advice? Any recipes would be appriciated!
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@elisa812 (3026)
• United States
12 Mar 09
I really just learned to cook on my own. I felt like that was the easiest way for me. I never took any classes, but I just started trying out different recipes, and I found that it really is not difficult to just follow the instructions on most recipes. Then, if I didn't understand something in a recipe, then I would just ask my mom, and she could usually explain it or show it to me. That way worked really well for me, because I could take my time and kind of experiment also, which made it more fun! Anyway, I think you could probably just search for simple recipes online and experiment on your own. Cooking shows could be ok too, but sometimes they make complicated things, so it could possibly get comfusing. I'm not sure if I was much help, but good luck with learning and have fun!
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• United States
12 Mar 09
With my mother in law so busy with her business she doesnt have time to teach me. I will end up probably learning on my own how to cook. I really am thankful for all the great advice from everyone here on mylot. Just seeing all these responses is making me feel better about it already.
• United States
12 Mar 09
I think the best way to learn how to cook is by watching your mother . Honestly anyone will do , watching someone and cooking along side of them is the best way to learn. There are also cooking videos you can find on the internet that show you step by step how to cook something. allrecipes.com is great, they have easy recipes to begin with . Everyone should learn how to cook, both men and women .
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• United States
11 Mar 09
I am 45 years old and could never cook very well. My boyfriend and I have started watching the food network a lot. I listen to a lot of the tips that they give and it really does help a lot. I think that you first need to find confidence in yourself to do it well. My favorite shows that give me the best ideas are Throw Down with Bobby Flay, Thirty minute meals with Rachel Ray, Paula's Party (Paula Deen). There are many other shows that I watch on the channel but these are the ones with the down to Earth real people kind of feel to them.
• United States
12 Mar 09
My husband thinks Rachel Ray is so talented and sexy maybe I should pick up one of her cookbooks.
• United States
12 Mar 09
I absolutely love Rachel Ray.... She's awesome. And she does give great tips on her show. I like watching. When I try to do things from a cook book, well, it doesn't generally turn out the way it's supposed to. Somehow if I listen to the shows and pick up different little tips here and there, I seem to make out well. Guess it all depends on the learning technique each of us has. Bobby Flay is awesome too, great tips and then there is Alton Brown... Or Elton, or something like that haha, he has a lot of great tips too. He explains things from scientific view so you get a better understanding of the food and why you should or shouldn't do certain things.
@inkling (84)
• United States
12 Mar 09
stargirl, you have gotten lots of responses and lots of good advice here. I love to cook, (even had my own cafe for a while), but cooking is like anything else one decides to take up. Invest in basic equipment and supplies. Nothing is more frustrating than finding out you have to purchase most of the supplies and ingredients if you want to try a recipe---kinda takes the wind out of your sails, ya know? If you have the basics, you can add an item or two as time, money and inspiration allows, because over time you will figure out what things to bring into your kitchen that will be most useful to you and your style of cooking. Please forgive me if the following seems too simple, but I only mention it because you would be surprised at how many of my friends have asked me to help them in their kitchens and I've found them using a coffe cup to measure with etc, yikes!To begin, no aspiring cook should be without: measuring spoons liquid and dry measuring cups, (yes, there's a difference) stirring spoon (one that won't damage nonstick surfaces) set of mixing bowls at least two good knives- one small for paring, one large for chopping. basic set of cookware, including on large pot for soups and sauces a couple of casserole dishes- one large one smaller. a cutting board is a good idea too. a spatula a rubber spatula a colander one basic cookbook with the above basics, you should be able to manage most recipes. Keeping a basic pantry is important too, (you know, flour, sugar, basic spices. Rice, pasta, etc. Watching cooking shows is a great way to learn, but can be a bit overwhelming for the beginner. I recommend choosing a recipe that you loved to eat when mom, gramma or a friend made it. Stick to the recipe the first time you make it. After you try a recipe the first time, you can make it your own by adding ingredients, subtracting ingredients, or adjusting in some way to suit your taste. I started my teaching my son and two daughters how to cook with their favorite casserole. It's called "Chopstick Tuna". It's easy and delicious. They were each successful and have gone on to become fine cooks, one and all. I send smiles and wishes for much success!Oh, and if the chopstick tuna recipe would interest you, let me know. I'll post it for you. smiles again, ink
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• United States
13 Mar 09
You have given some very helpful advice! Im just a beginner and have a fear of burning whatever I cook. I like everything I eat well done and my husband is the exact oppisite. I am not only learning to cook, but im learning to cook for a man whose mother is the best cook i have ever met. Im so happy to see this many people on mylot took time out to give me advice. Thank you so much! Any recipe that you would like to share is much appreciated.
• Philippines
12 Mar 09
Stay to the kitchen and observe your mom/dad how they cook, its good for you to start up basic recipe because its better to take actual experience than to take theories how to cook. Its somehow strange a little for you at first but you'll learn and surely you'll enjoy cooking.
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• United States
12 Mar 09
I do feel weird in the kitchen because I know im a clumsy person. Im hoping with practice that ill be able to at least learn to make a few meals that are tasty. Its hard to please my husband and if he doesnt like something he will let me know its not as good as his moms.
@Jae2619 (1483)
• United States
11 Mar 09
Though, I learned at an early age how to cook with my mother, though it was enough to get me by, but it wasn't much. When I left for college in another state, I had to figure out how i was gonna get by, so I started by trail and error. I gathered recipes from my mom while home on break, and took them back with me and tried them. I taught myself what I know now. I now can threw things together in a heartbeat with out reicpes or measuring cups, and spoons. But you have to believe in yourself and be willing to try to new things, and eat what you cook. If you don't like it, then you'll know for the next time. There are still times when I think, gosh this could have been better if I'd put this in it. Experiment with things. I cook alot of from scratch things, which taste so much better than store bought things. I cook anywhere from 1 to 3 times a day, depending what is going on with our family that day, and it's good to know I can do that for my family. Just try, and if you dont succeed, try again. Best of luck!
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• United States
12 Mar 09
My mother in law cooks from scratch and I always worry that nothing I could cook would be as good as hers. I just feel the added pressure because my husbands family are all very good cooks.
@ljbinkop (744)
• United States
11 Mar 09
I was much older than 23 when I started cooking, because I had lived in apartments with other 20 somethings, and the only thing we ate was take out. My mother was always a really good cook, though, and when I turned about 26, I started experimenting more in the kitchen. Now I write recipes online for extra income! Once you catch the cooking bug, you will never turn away from making it yourself as opposed to take out! I think watching cooking show is a really good place to start for ideas and techniques. Rachel Ray is a really good choice for a beginner, because she also gives you a lot of cooking hints and techniques that will help you if you pick up a cookbook and try a recipe. That's another really good idea for a beginner cook. Pick up a slow-cooker book or a book on just how to cook chicken, and once you strat cooking those things, you will learn quickly! Good luck, and have a great day!
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• United States
12 Mar 09
I really want to learn to cook because we do eat alot of take out. I worry about my husbands health because of this. I see how unhealthy he eats and would like to try to do something about it. Im hoping to find recipes that are easy to cook healthy and tasty at the same time. Thanks for the advice!
@lizzyt2007 (1312)
• Craig, Alaska
12 Mar 09
I watch my family sometimes but what I found is looking on the internet for easy recipes that is a good start to learn to cook. I am still learning. I like baking meals and slow cooking my meals.
• Saint Lucia
12 Mar 09
The best way to to learn how to cook is to watch the person who is cooking, providing the person can cook, because this is the way I learnt how to cook. Actually I learnt to cook from my mother who was an excellent cook. For years I use to watch how my mother prepare food and that is how I was able to cook. It is much easier that way, instead of somebody telling you how to prepare the food. Reading receipes and actaully seeing the food being prepared is much better.
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• Philippines
11 Mar 09
hi there. I love to cook also. and nothing can excite me more than watching different cooking tv shows. I think this can help a lot 'coz you can get tips and advice from well known chefs around the world. I also watch from cable tv where there are lots of cooking shows. I can recommend to you videojug.com you can watch cooking demonstrations there, lot to choose from. Try also to read some magazines about cooking and always remember the different tips they give for cooking. I hope It can help. happy mylotting!!!!
• United States
12 Mar 09
Thanks for the advice! I will go look at that website it sounds very helpful. I didnt even think about looking into magazines. The website and magazines are things that I can look at multiple times for help.
• India
12 Mar 09
i think the best way is to watch your mom cooking....or any one who cooks in your family.......when we watch them cook everyday, we learn the basics easily. once you get the basics, you can try experimenting with the recipes that are shown in the TV or those you read in magazines. have a nice day
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• United States
11 Mar 09
I have watched my mom cook so many different things while growing up that now at the age of 23 im a really good cook. We watch the cooking channels to get new ideas and always read new recipes to see waht else we can cook. Also you can see on you tube what others do as well and that might help you out. If you can do over to someones house while they are making dinner and they might be able to show you exactly what they are doing so maybe you can do it next time. Enjoy
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• United States
12 Mar 09
Everyone is giving such great advice thank you so much. I need to try everyones advice. I had no idea there were this many different ways to learn to cook. Magazines, cooking channels, the internet, family, watching others perpare dinner, wow thats alot.
• United States
12 Mar 09
Watching the Food Network is a good place to start. I learned to cook from watching my mom. Watching for me is the best way to learn how to cook cause I can see how the food is suppose to look.(although your food will rarly look as perfect as the food on the Food Network, lol) I would start with some very simple receipes and then once you get confident you can work your way up.
• United States
11 Mar 09
well my opininon is how to cook is from the best 0erson in ure family just keep watching and u get the hang of it even though if u dont get it jujst ask for help or keep watchin or just keep tring cuse it all depends on wat ure tring to learn to cook i am still le3arning and u can also take cooking classes that can be fun or like i said a miillion or thousand trimes justg keep tringor keep watching the best family member or whoe3ver u live wit
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• United States
12 Mar 09
My mother in law owns a barbeque restaruant and I feel like anything I could try to make wouldnt be good enough for my husband. He is so use to everything being cooked homemade.
@a638000 (219)
• China
12 Mar 09
i think be a good cooker must depend on talent, i also don't cook well today, i am 22, i can cook ,but it's not delicious. hehe..everyday i learn cooking from my mother ,but which she cooked is very delicious...i think i can't get the tips!! happy mylotting!
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@parvezjs (422)
• India
12 Mar 09
Cooking is very simple.In Veg and Non Veg both there are some particular ingredients which you have to remember.Thats it!! and then go on adding things form your mind but ofcourse related to that.If first time you couldn'd make it perfect,second time i am sure you will make the best.Practice makes people expert.No need to watch cookery shows and join classes for it.A female has this quality gifted by God at the time of birth.So go ahead with confidence and win the kitchen.
@Amigo523 (121)
• India
12 Mar 09
Just try to experiment with the food and you can learn it.. be carefull dont try first see some body whom you hate,,,,,
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@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
12 Mar 09
I think the best way to learn cooking is self learning and ask people when you want to know something. I sed to always watching my mom cooking, when I want to know something then I asked her. I do a lot of experiment by myself and I like to look up differnet recipe on the internet. I suggest you can find some easy recipe to try first then slowly go up higher level(I more difficult cooking) ;-)
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@VANILLAREY (1470)
• India
12 Mar 09
Learn it from a family member, friend or cooking class. Watching cooking on TV and trying that is not as simple as it seems. Usually in a cooking show the chef tells you the ingredients and the steps. But a family member will will also tell you at what flame the food should be cooked, when the flame should be incresed or decresed, which vessel would be suited for a particular dish, at what point should the next ingredient be added etc. Avoid learning to cook by yourself. My friend once tried frying Jack fruit seed and the seed caused the oil to burst on to her face. After learning the basics and understanding how to cook you can try it yourself or try recipies from TV shows.
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@csrobins (1120)
• United States
12 Mar 09
Experience and trial and error. And someone who has been cooking a long time. The tv is not good, it never works right. I would just start finding some things you have always wanted to make (probably baking is easier to begin learning) and go for it. When something doesn't go right then look into that specific problem and see what you can do better next time and good luck have fun!
@Ted3_uk (114)
12 Mar 09
Hope this is not seen as advert, but in my case i tryed to learn when i was 21, but not really worked. Recently though i bought that Cook game for Nintendo DS, I thought it would be a joke, but it was actully really good! It shows you 100's of items from diffrent countrys or from main ingerident which is cool Shows all the preperations, methods, hints, cooking, and serving with helpful videos and guidance.. Iv made lots from there and been very happy every time! Down side is you'd be surprised how much some of these dishes cost inc herbs and spices ect, but i guess its gonna be cheaper 2nd time you make that dish. I found it found to load up at work in lunch, see what i wanted to make, get the fresh ingredents on way home, and then cook it up. Just make sure you check in the game which utensils and any odd things u might need. Good Luck!
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