Second Chances

@Alex18 (169)
United States
March 12, 2009 1:33am CST
Hello fellow mylotters! hope every one is having a good day or night :) I have a question for everyone, do you believe in second chances? like if your gf or bf broke up with you and realized that wasnt the right choice and they want you back, would you give them a second chance? Thanks for your responses, have a good day.
4 responses
@mkchaves (533)
• Canada
12 Mar 09
Ok, i just came from that situation. My boyfriend broken up with me because he did something stupid. He broke up with me. Take note. After 2 weeks, he tried to win me back. He, well... He said sorry for everything that he has done to put our relationship in jeopardy.. I was badly hurt of the things that happened. I asked from him time and if he could wait for my decision. He said that he'll wait. After much deliberation of my heart and mind. It came into decision to follow my heart. I gave him his chance. this is not 2nd, because I already gave him his second chance and his 3rd chance. Soo.... Yeah
@forslahiri (1042)
• India
12 Mar 09
Hi, If the break-up is for silly reasons(e.g-jealousy,ego etc),of course! U better Learn from Ur past mistakes & never repeat in life. =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.
• Philippines
12 Mar 09
Like an old cliche goes, "Everybody deserves to have a second a chance." It depends on how you feel about it, and how things weigh out after A LOT of thinking. There's nothing wrong with second chances, as long as you know what you deserve this time and that you won't succumb to whatever it was that broke it up the first time. I have given a second chance, (and still continue to fight for it) and so far I have no regrets. It's about knowing the difference now and before, and aiming to have a better relationship with each other.
• United States
12 Mar 09
I think that it all depends on the circumstances. I for one do believe in second chances but every person is different. You need to ask yourself some important questions before deciding whether or not to give a person a second chance. For one, did your significant other break up with you for someone else? Did you and your significant other fight or disagree often? If two people break up just due to the fact that they were not compatible with each other and fought a lot, chances are, the relationship might be just as faulty the second time around as well. If however you truly love each other and are willing to work out whatever differences or past problems there were that broke you up the first time, then yes, you should give it a second chance.