need ur help..please help me.. part 2

@drdivu (1011)
India
March 13, 2009 10:02am CST
part 2 then he put up conditions stating that -he wil not call me up, according to him we have more fights -he wants me to stay away from his professional life completely.. these things dint work and our fight lasted for more than one month SPOILING MY EXAMS BUT I MANAGED TO PASS...THANKFULLY.. then he used to hurt me and abuse me on n off..I tried stopping himbut in vain..he promised to stay a day or two extra for me, during his exams but at the last minute he changed his plans and went home early.. he used to constantly tell me that HE DOES NOT HAVE TIME FOR ME..SO HE CANT CALL ME UP FROM HIS HOUSE TOO... now wen i had to come home, he fixed his operation date and I offered to stay back with him, leaving all my friends behind coz they could understand me.. i helped him move his leg every 5min, helped him brush, eat food, drink water, urinate and even toilet..!!! but he disregarded all saying that HE COULD HAVE CALLED HIS FRIENDS THERE AND THEY WOULD HAVE HELPED HIM BETTER...for this i rebuked him and slightly touched his cheek in anger..he said that since i have tried slapping him..our relationship is over..ibegged for more that 3hrs for him but he insulted me..he called the nurses there to tell me to get out..but wen i was leaving him, he stopped me and apologised.. then at 10 night he told me to go overnight to bangalore and finish my work and come back there tomoro..i did as told..i called him from bus coz the BUS WAS FULL OF MALES WITH NO FEMALES AND I WAS SCARED TO CARRY OVERNIGHT JOURNEY..BUT HE SWITCHED OFF HIS PHONE... But next morning i came back at 10 night and then took him from hospital and boarded 11 pm train for delhi..leaving him in agra 1st..I took long way for my route..whole time he kept accusing me that i have insulted him and i dont respect him etc.. in his good moods, which is rare he gifted me a taj mahal and a watched..he said HE DOES NOT KNOW HOW TO EXPRESS HIS LOVE FOR ME SO HE DOES NOHING OTHER THAT BEING POSSESSIVE ABOUT ME..!!! NOW AGAIN HE IS FIGHTING..OUR TODAYS CONVERSATION: he-hi..how are u..?? me-fine he-dont u want to talk to me..?? me-no..1st u tell why dint u reply my calls with a single call or msg for last 4 days..??? he-its ok then..bye..i too dont want any arguments..everyone at home..bye.. me-if u keep phone now, then i wont call up..?? he-no prob..bye..bye.. he kept down the phone.. wat shall i do now??? where m i wrong..???
2 responses
• India
13 Mar 09
just leave him.i really dont know how you are bearing him.just leave him.if you leave him he ll understand your value.even then if he cannot understand your value its his fate that he lost a girl like you.
@drdivu (1011)
• India
13 Mar 09
but now if i leave him, he wil say that since my use is over and my final year is over,i m leaving him...
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
13 Mar 09
You have to let this one go. Obviously he is the wrong one for you. Possiveness is not love, abuse is not love...find someone else and forget this one...let him go.