Do you use dating site? Trying to find love? Come learn and shear some tips?

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@Ted3_uk (114)
March 13, 2009 10:30am CST
Any one using a dating site? Quiet often you maybe happy with your profile. And send message to people, but can sometime get very few replys... This could be for many reason. And these reasons are not for us to worry about, but i am wondering what do people say in a message to someone they dont know to show intrest of starting to get to know each other? Or just to indroduce and get a reply? All good 4 you peeps!
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@Marcola (2774)
• United States
13 Mar 09
Well, you can always comment on something they have on their profile. Maybe there's a common interest there or you could say "Hey! What's up? I couldn't help but notice you're in my area, so if you want to chat, hit me back if you're interested!" Of course, that usually doesn't work because so many women are so full of themselves and they need a reality check. I guess asking someone on a dating site to marry you usually gets a reaction. It's worked for me. :P
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@Ted3_uk (114)
13 Mar 09
LOL What as a First message??? '' Hey, how do you do? Will you Marry me??'' Guess thats worth a try, whats the worst that happens? oh yea, no reply LOL
@Marcola (2774)
• United States
13 Mar 09
Yeah like, "Inside this e-mail lurks a very important question.......will you marry me? If so, e-mail me back and we can talk! Well, e-mail me anyway....um, please?" She'll probably write you back and think you're funny. That's not a bad sign.
@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
hello ted3_uk.. yes, i've been using dating sites for how many years now.. i do have fun with some men over the internet..chatting, emails..i had many replies until now, actually, one of the foreigner came to my country to visit me, but i dont feel him, the magic was not there, i don't love him..we don't communicate anymore but i can text him if i wanted..i also have 2 chatmates right now.. it's just i'm clever enough to choose men over the internet coz i'm honestly afraid of them, i don't know them that much, i don't know what they can do to me if we meet..with some tips, i can share that if you like the profile of that person and he suited to your like too, you can give him a message and introduce yourself, theres nothing wrong with that..others can be interested on you, others are not, it's just you need lots of patience, it's kinda boring sometimes but if you really want it you will have lots of eagerness and patience...goodluck and happy mylotting