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my lotter's, Hi all iam having difficulties with me best friend, which is my husband. I am feeling that he is not all involved and that he has just settled. Maybe like he dont want to be here with us, but that he is here just because we have had kids and have a long history together. We are turning 26 this year and have dated since we were 12 years old. 1.) I need advice on what i am supposed to do? 2.)Is this normal for guy's to have this behavior? 3.)Will this kind of behavior subside? 4.)Am i the only one that has been through this? What i have done recently i told him i didnt want to be married anymore, I could see the pain come over his face like someone had kicked him in his genitals a few times.I did not want to hurt him in anyway, I just wanted to let him know how i felt. After bieng married for 6 yrs i just feel that he has married me because of our history together and that he feels he has moral obligation's. All though he could be there with out being married and he would still be the same man, He dont have to be married to me to take care of them. 1.) How can i make him happy? when it is so hard. Any and all advice is appreciated lotter's,please could some help me out before my marriage goe's to shamble's? thank's to all