What has kept you so busy?

@wxc6822 (185)
China
March 17, 2009 7:19am CST
Everytime,when i inveit my friend come out to play football,they all say they have no time.Yes,think about,i also always busy to have no time with my famify,hard work everyday,and lost the enjoyment of life.sometims,i ask myself what's the most important thing in my life,we work hard for what? my friend,do you usually busy,and what has kept you so busy?
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@Margajoe (4720)
• Germany
17 Mar 09
Yes, I know what you mean. It all seems so useless. But, I have been off work for almost 2 years now. I can only say, without work, life is even harder. Without work you have no money. (a lot less) You cannot do what you want to do. When you have work , you have money, but no time to spend it. I know both situations. I must say, I would rather have a job. This way I will be busy, feeling like a part of life. Where now I feel like I am not a part of life. Being at home doing nothing. Without money, you don't have friends. Sometimes life can be very lonely. Be happy you have a job, and are a part of life. Take care.
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@wxc6822 (185)
• China
17 Mar 09
Thank you,you are right,if we have no job,maybe the life will lose enjoyment.working is beautiful,i aslo think i should spend some times with my child.what do you think? my friend ,take care yourself too.
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@Margajoe (4720)
• Germany
17 Mar 09
Oh yes, spend time with your child, definitely. Life goes fast when you have children, they grow up so fast. Spend as much time as you can with your child. That makes life worth living too. Take care.
@wxc6822 (185)
• China
17 Mar 09
I cannot belive it,they grow so fast,yes,so fast.
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• United States
17 Mar 09
My autistic son keeps me very busy . I also had some health issues some months back that kept me from being as active as I use to be, so I had surgery in January and I'm doing a bit better after the surgery. I know my friends sometimes get upset with me because it's hard for me to follow threw with plan's I make with them sometimes because of health reasons and because it's hard to find a babysitter for a child with autism but I don't mean anything negative about it towards them and I hope my friends understand how busy I am sometimes, but some of them are not understanding . Usually the friends that are not understanding are the friends who have no children and have more free time to do whatever they want and don't understand the demands of being a parent. Since my surgery I am doing more things now and trying to hang out with my friends more since I'm feeling a bit better. wxc6822, please try and take some time off ( if you can ) to spend time with your family. If you have a day or 2 off from work a week then you should be able to plan something with the family. Even if you just stay home for a family cook-out or have a family movie night with popcorn and pizza then that is nice time well spent with the family.I think almost every single person on the planet is very busy at one time or another we just have to manage our free time better so we can have quality moments with our family and friends.
@wxc6822 (185)
• China
17 Mar 09
I am sorry to hear the thing about your son,but you have to take care of yourself,now,you are the pillars of your family.Only we encountered a bad situation,we can really know the importance about health and family.I think i already know how to do,thank you.Good luck to you and your son.
• United States
17 Mar 09
My work, family, and school keep me busy. Honestly I stay so busy I hardley have time for myself. Sometimes it is nice because I am not so bored but sometimes it seems like I don't have enough time and I am overwhelmed! I think that is life though;-)
@gzlgzl123 (224)
• China
17 Mar 09
Recently I feel so tired.I get ready to find a job,so I must do my best to make myself capable,I read so many books and remember so many skills.That's terrible.Now I only want to sleep.Good night,my friend.