What do men want?

@nikky28 (1572)
India
March 17, 2009 7:32am CST
We have all heard of the cliched question, "What do women want?" People say this as if it is easy to understand what men wanted. I think understanding men sometimes is difficult too. If the question is really easy, what do men want? And does your answer apply to all men? And to the ones it applies, does it hold good all the time?
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3 responses
• United States
18 Mar 09
I cannot possibly answer this question with a straight face. Just kidding! As a woman, I have always been fascinated by the answers to the question what do women want. By the way, it is very rarely equal rights. The answers to that question usually have to do with beauty and relationships. Those don't play as important a role in my life, as, I guess, society would want. So, when the question is posed what do men want? I can safely say that the answers that come to mind probably aren't on target. Those answers are to be a good provider to their family, be a strong diciplinarian to their children, be handy....I don't really feel like going on because those answers are so societally driven. Even almost a decade into the 21st century, I still don't think we have shaken off those gender specific roles and rules. It's really a shame because every individual, regardless of gender, has so much more to offer than, let's say, for a woman being a beautiful piece of arm candy, and for a man being stoic, and unemotional. There is more to everybody than I think a good number of people are willing to see.
@nikky28 (1572)
• India
18 Mar 09
yes you have brought in a very important perspective. I am wondering how differnt men and women would be mentally, if there were brought up by treating them equally.
@meetvivek (226)
• India
18 Mar 09
Men want a great life and a good wife.
@nikky28 (1572)
• India
18 Mar 09
haha To the point.
@zahfran (851)
• Singapore
17 Mar 09
Hello. My answer is men just wanna have fun! Hahaha.. Men just want a sense of security actually. They wanna know that their lady is always there by their side. Men always took the trouble to understand what's inside a women's mind. But a woman rarely thinks about a man's feelings. To top it all off. Men just want a sense of security actually. So yeahh..
@nikky28 (1572)
• India
17 Mar 09
Aww that was a sweet answer. I do think that deep inside men do want security that a woman would stay with him always. Thanks for the response. Have a nice day!