Do you praise a woman's prettiness when your wife is there?

@lingzi (567)
China
March 19, 2009 3:34am CST
i am a woman,maybe a litter jealous .if my hubby praises a woman's prettiness when i am there,i will be unhappy,even if i also praise her.if your hubby do like this,what's your feeling? if you are a man, do you always praise other women's prettiness when your wife is there??what's your wife's reaction?
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• India
20 Mar 09
really its an interesting thing to know actually possessiveness is an important in this type of relationship because every one has fear that whether i may not loose my husband or wife so they never like if they are praising someone else of opposite partner . according to me if my wife does like that than i will not mind to little extend because now the time is of open minded and my wife will also not like if i say anything to her in this small matter. yes if it goes for long and every time than i will really take interest in that matter and try to make understand my wife.
• United States
20 Mar 09
~I think it's just rude for a husband to make comments on how pretty another woman is while his wife is standing there. How would he feel if his wife was the one making comments about some handsome guy in front of her husband ?. If it would make the husband feel uncomfortable if his wife did it , then he shouldn't do it either. It's most likely making her feel uncomfortable . It's different when guys are together talking about some good looking woman. Just like sometimes women get together and talk about some good looking guy . But to do it in front of your husband or wife and it makes them feel bad or uncomfortable, it's wrong .
@lingzi (567)
• China
20 Mar 09
hi,ahish,i agree with you.actually i don't care my hubby talking about pretty women if i am not there. if i am at his side,i will feel a litter discomfiture .
• United States
23 Mar 09
I liked women at one point in my life but now since i'm older I don't really think about it any more but I still would find myself uncomfortable if my husband where to do it while I'm standing there and most likely I'd make a seen where ever we are that is why I know he won't do that.
@ank_47 (1959)
• India
23 Mar 09
i am a woman too and i too will be jealous if my husband praises other lady. i will talk to him irritatingly when we come home.
@liz1122 (47)
• United States
23 Mar 09
There are some circumstances where this is acceptable if you and your partner are swingers, or you have an open marriage.
• United States
21 Mar 09
I praise a womans prettiness all the time around my girlfriend, but I also point out the less attractive women as well so she doesnt get jealous about it, actually a few times we've argued because she thought a girl was pretty and I disagreed and vise versa, before you get jealous praise a guys good looks in front of your husband and see how he reacts, if he gets jealous than go ahead and get jealous, but if he doesnt mind I dont think you should mind, but its your life/relationship so do what you feel is right