if your friend ask for help will you help them?

Singapore
March 23, 2009 11:38am CST
if your friend ask for help will you help them ? even they ask for money? not a close friend will you still do?
4 responses
@Elegant7 (142)
• United States
23 Mar 09
If it is something I can afford to help them with, then I would do my best to help them out. However, if they ask for something outrageous, it would really depend on how much they needed in and my ability to help them out in that situation. In addition, some friends I have I know wouldn't pay me back or help me out if I was in a sticky situation and this might make me reluctant to help them out; it doesn't mean that I won't help, it just means that they might not receive the same amount of help as another friend. I know it sounds mean, but that's the truth of how I operate.
• China
23 Mar 09
yes, if they really need help , i'll try my best to help him.
@SuzyLong (775)
23 Mar 09
Depends on the friend. If it was my best friend and I could afford to help then I would in a heart beat because I know she would pay me back as soon as she could. But not any of my other friends, I don't really like lending money to people outside my family or my best friend. Gets too conplicated if they don't pay you back.
• Israel
23 Mar 09
This is a very general question... I guess it really depends on who he is and what he asks for. I tend to help people - even if I don't know them - but there are limits, of course. I won't just give away money... and even my time is precious, so I would choose well to whom I help and in what way.