how to?

Philippines
March 23, 2009 11:56am CST
How do you make someone love you?
12 responses
@Eweniks (361)
• Nigeria
23 Mar 09
Love is a natural thing that comes from the mind. It is never imposed on anybody. But you can make someone develope interest in you by doing such things he or she likes most. You may pretend to be doing such not for him or her to notice you. By playing games like this, you could earn 60 percent of your target's love.
1 person likes this
• Philippines
23 Mar 09
hehehe! nice one..playing games like that? do you any more? I would really want to know...do tell me please.. :D
• Philippines
23 Mar 09
I mean do you know any more?
• United States
23 Mar 09
Yes love is a natural thing but if it's real love games shouldn't have to be played.
@mrrome (73)
• Philippines
23 Mar 09
Man and woman naturally atract to one another. That is the bridge that link to you and your prospective girl. Love makes no boundaries. Love is a spirit of emotion that needs to travel to one speciefic person. its just like the eye, you don't see the string linking from your eye to the things you see, but you still know or feel if theres someone looking at you. The same principle applied to the emotion. This emotion transfer to the person you want to transfer to. You only need to stress your feelings toward the person but if you have doubt the same amount of vibrations transfer. The next step to do is to express yourself. In the way of gentle smile, a note, a text message if you know her number. But the most special way to approach is the old fashion way "a love letter" it's always dramatical sensitive expression of love. But before you do everything to make someone to love you is to know your feeling. Question your self if you really love. or what are the things you willing to do for her. Loving someone is not really about the girl is all about you and your feelings. I can tell you if you do a simple thing that this girl returns back a simple gesture of appreciation makes you happy. Being inlove is not about being loved. Being love is just a price for what you did or what you express. Because if you love someone, whether she didn't love you is just ok. the important thing is that she's letting you love her. Sounds like hard arn't they? But when a girl feel "not see" your emotion and your effort to love her, she eventually going to be inlove with you. So just express your self, the key work is emotion it naturally binds with her heart.
• Philippines
23 Mar 09
Wow great reply there... thank you...
@wisconsin26 (3859)
• United States
23 Mar 09
You Can't... It's almost trying to lead a horse to water but can you really make them drink? Again no.. Love is a very powerful thing.. Sure you can do things for a person and try and win their love that way.. You have to have the feeling and the other person does too.. If there isn't one than your better off friends and who knows what might happen after that..
• United States
23 Mar 09
I agee that love is a powerful thing and you can't make anyone love you.
@swerdna (117)
• United States
24 Mar 09
You don't. Congratulations on having the stupidest question I have ever read on MyLot.
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
You consider it stupid? How come there are people that just falls in love? I know some of them too.
@swerdna (117)
• United States
24 Mar 09
Let me rephrase my comment then. Your question was presented very poorly. You cannot MAKE someone love you. If it could be done, that would be akin to rape. Is that the kind of love you really want? If it isn't freely given, it isn't worth having. Is that better?
@vheilugto (149)
• Philippines
26 Mar 09
just be yourself and relax, don't be so boastful or give and take. okey? and make sure that you always make your partner SPECIAL!
@ablj10 (1)
• South Africa
25 Mar 09
thats nw one thing in life that you cant do,its either he loves you or he loves u no, my opinion on this is when a person don't want you let him go don't force him or her
@liz1122 (47)
• United States
23 Mar 09
In my opinion the way you get someone to love you is to be yourself, that's how I met my husband.
• China
23 Mar 09
Mainly their love yourself,others love themselves are unimportant,the main livehood are glad,is not it?
@benny128 (3615)
23 Mar 09
you cant make someone love you, if you try and make someone love you it will push the person away, be yourself and if it was meant to be then it will be.
• Philippines
23 Mar 09
Don't look for love, be yourself. Let people see who you are, love comes when you least expect it.
23 Mar 09
I agree with the comment above me. You can't make someone love you. If you are wanting someone and you aren't even talking to them that much then maybe you should and start to get to know them. ( I used to think of this question when I was younger when I never even had the guts to talk to the guy in the first place) If you are always talking and hanging around together and there is no sign of affection between you, then I guess he/she just don't like you in that way. I remember once I told this guy that I liked him over msn, and then he told me that because I told him that he started liking me!...werid hehe. But we lasted for quite a few months. The next guy, we both fell in love just because we was always together and I did one thing of laying on his lap, and I think from there we both had the feeling that we liked each other.
@kayens (19)
• India
25 Mar 09
I donot make anybody love me rather I mould my behaviour such a way that people love me. This sort of behaviour involves sincerity towards others, unselfish and unconditional help of others and positive contribution towards healthy social life