A question about love.

United States
March 23, 2009 3:34pm CST
If you could make a person love you,would you truly be satisfied even if you know that you lied and played games with this person to achieve it? Do you think that the relationship will last long term?
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9 responses
@inked4life (4224)
• United States
23 Mar 09
No, I wouldn't be happy with that situation. The problem is that the person would not have fallen in love with you, rather the persona you created with the lies you told. The chances of that relationship lasting would be pretty slim as you would be sure to be caught in one of the lies you told.
• United States
23 Mar 09
Someone that I considered a friend keeps doing this and the relationships never work.
@srganesh (6340)
• India
25 Mar 09
Haven't you heard,"anything is fair at love and war"?.But I won't support heavy lies or cheating.Just some small sweet lies that would not hurt her,if she happens to know the truth.The lies must be like a mischievous child doing things to attract attention.Cheers!
@piattos (13)
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
no..that relationship wont last long since it started with lies... and it's so unbecoming of a person to play with teh emotion or feelings of another... what satisifaction could you get from that? how would u feel if somebody did that also to you? always remember the Golden Rule. =)
• Philippines
23 Mar 09
Absolutely not. A relationship based on lies will never last. It's the same thing that movie stars have, a relationship based on fame and fortune, not real love.
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
Definitely not. It's really nice if we have that power to make someone like us, much more love us. But if there's really such a thing and if you used it to someone else, you will just be lying, not just to that other person, but to yourself as well. And you're the one who'll get hurt in the end, and that 'end' will come sooner than you think.
@emma1987 (107)
• China
24 Mar 09
NO,it wouldn't .if you make up your personality,to make somebody love you ,the relationshio will not last long time,because she or he is not love you in true,she or he just like the person whom you have maked up..
@cyberfluf (4996)
• Netherlands
23 Mar 09
I wouldn't. If you trick someone into loving you then you don't love that person in the first place. If someone doesn't feel the same for you than the true action of love would be to respect that and let them go. You want the best for your loved ones, you want them to be happy; even if that means without you. The relationship wouldn't last long term because it needs a solid foundation, and a foundation of lies is not a solid one.
@krupesh (2608)
• India
23 Mar 09
Nothing wrong in telling lies till you get the person.But when you accept her for the rest of your life then one fine day you should tell the truth as somehow she would come to know the truth which may lead to unnecessary arguments & quarrels. In the first place try not to tell lies.
• United States
23 Mar 09
If I had to lie to this person then the relationship is not worth it. And once the lie comes out someone is going to be very angry. I would not do this to gain someones love for I would not want someone to do this to me either.