who would you rather choose? the one you love or the one who loves you?

@aileen18 (170)
Philippines
March 24, 2009 9:33am CST
i go for the one who loves me because eventually i believe that i can learn to love him especially if he's kind and understanding. because if i choose to go for someone i love but he doesn't love me at all, then it will be useless at all. all i can have is a broken heart..:)
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4 responses
• Philippines
25 Mar 09
Hi. Same choice for me. I'll go for the one who loves me. It is based on experience take care
@ank_47 (1963)
• India
25 Mar 09
i also go for the one who loves me because he can take more care towards me ,as he understands me more. and i also can understand him and take more care for him.
• Philippines
25 Mar 09
i agree with you. if you spend your life pining over someone who doesn't feel the same way, you'll be miserable all throughout your life. however, if you choose the one who loves you, you have a chance to be happy. even though you don't love him back, you would be happy knowing that you're around someone who loves you. and in time, you might learn to love him too. remember, love is a two-way street. both need to give, both need to take. it can never be one gives the other takes or else it will end badly. hope i answered your question. :D
@juzitou (161)
• United States
24 Mar 09
I think you had make the right choice.The feelings should be cultivated for much time.If he loves you but you don't love him,as you know ,no problem,time will change everything,you will love him too some days later,when at that time,you will be a good example at others' eyes.I hope you will live happily and love him as soon as posssible!