Do You Still

ui do think of then sometimes, talked to mty second ex via e-mail for awhile but couldn't see that he had changed a darn bit. that made me know how lucky i was that he's an ex. lol.

Old gf vicky not in love with her now but then I would have done anything for her the last time we did something was 2 week's before her wedding after that I join the army and tried to keep in touch with her one day I was delivering stuff to house's when I got and oder with her name and address on I gave it to another driver told him what was up that was 10 year's ago lol

Yeah i think of it sometimes. You cannot avoid thinking of your past relationships. Its part of what you are right now. Looking back on the things that happened before is alright but wondering if you could have picked the other option is another story. You will just upset yourself. Just be contented on the decisions you made and if theres a problem with it, try to solve it and not think of the past.

I think about my ex alot. I even moved across the country to be with him and it didn't work out. Six years later I still think about him. I happen to know what he's doing because we do occasionally email each other. He's with someone else now and when I found out I was hurt (this was about 1 1/2 yrs after we split up). I had a hard time understanding why he could be with someone and change his entire life around for her but not for me. Especially when he said she's alot like me. I have gotten over that and wish nothing but the best for him. However, I do still love him and wonder what things would be like now if he had been ready for a bigger commitment way back when. The last email I received from him told me that he still does the "what if" thing himself. I know he feels about me the way I do him but we have also accepted the fact that we will never have a life together. I'm just grateful that we had the time that we did have and have been able to accept that and at least stay friends. The feelings I had for him from the beginning will never change. I still feel that he was my true soulmate but our timing was all wrong. Maybe in another life???....

Certainly, It is a memory that cannot be erased in our life. How to forget a presense of someone that have cuaght the attention of your heart. We are humans and we fill many memories in our mind. We cannot forget no matter how much we try.

Well me and my ex just broke up recently. so of course i still think about him alot. every single day. but i think that if we dont get back together (which we're working on getting back together), then even years down the road i would still think about him. because he is my first love, so that love for him will always be there. because he was my first for everything. So i believe that if you love someone deeply and lose that love then you will always honestly come to thinking of them sometime or another

Hi summerfire, there is one word to that for me 'no' I never think back in hindsight and think what could of been, mainly as my ex was awful, I won't say how but it does make me think 'what the hell did I ever see in him!'...bad eh? but true!...bb littleowl

Yes! I still think of these thoughts and about my ex-lover even though we got separated almost three years back! She got married to another person and got shifted to another country. I know she is very happy. Even I have moved on with my life and completed many of my responsibilities and happy today with my status. I am almost made up my mind to get married soon too. But many times, my mind gets back to few years earlier time and starts thinking about it could have done few things differently to keep that girl in my life forever. She cheated me and went off my life. My logical mind knows it, even my heart accepts this truth. But my heart sometimes asks these questions - whether I could have retained her in my life. Even though our life moves, even though our thoughts changes, our dreams gets bigger and bigger, our feelings can never get destroyed. Even we may suppress them for a time being, they will still be there which haunts our mind sometimes! But whenever I think about these kind of feelings, I wish her great luck and happiness in her life and wish I never meet her again so that my mind can stay calm and peaceful!