when your boy friend or girl friend broke up with you ,what would you like to do

@emma1987 (107)
China
March 28, 2009 9:09am CST
If you love a boy or a girl very much ,but he or she misunderstand you with something.Then he or she want to broke with you,would you beg him or her dont leave you?
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4 responses
@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
30 Mar 09
It's not easy just to let go just like that. Especially if the misunderstanding is very shallow, I think if you really love each other you'll both hold on then just wasting the years or the months goes by. If she won't understand me with what I'll explain, I think she just really want space for her self. It's just useless to talk things but space for her to think first. But it won't be a splitting up the solution first is to think first, then talk again it's just up to her when. Now if really wont change her mind about leaving me, I'll respect her decision. Maybe I given our relationship to work out but things did not work out and it's all up to her what will make her happy I will respect her. Anyway life will still go on, it will not kill me, but love was not meant for me. I'll just let the wounds heal by it self and that is time I needed. Have a nice day to you!
@emma1987 (107)
• China
31 Mar 09
Thank you for your answer.I want to tell you i believe i only love him ,i cant lost him ,but he had decided to leave me now.Somrtimes i want to die to ending my life .I dont konw how to explain my heart,like lost everything what i have had. But he dont trust me now,Maybe i think she dont love me any more. I love him so much ,but how could he so cruely to me .I want to know the answer.
@pxhnchsh (146)
• China
29 Mar 09
In my opinion you should first think it over whether is suitable for you to live together in the future. Maybe you should split up. If not, you have no choice but take to him or her for your future.
@emma1987 (107)
• China
29 Mar 09
I dont know .I am not sure if he is the right man.
@srganesh (6350)
• India
29 Mar 09
I will surely try to explain things to make her understand things correctly.Putting effort to retain the relationship is must as I love that girl seriously and honestly.We shall no allow them to depart just like that.Even if she insist to leave me,I will try to convince her through other friends and wait for her to return.True love is worth to struggle and wait.Cheers!
@emma1987 (107)
• China
29 Mar 09
I guess you must love your gf very much.
@aowaow (1517)
• Indonesia
29 Mar 09
It depends on what he/she offered as for the reason, and I assume you're not doing what your partner accused your for that. As well, we might think it's a misunderstanding, but not for your partner. When partner had decided to leave, it's an absolute agreement in his/her heart. The solution would not be anything else, it's only by discussing it. Anyway, if some others were mentioned had involved, ask them to join for the discussion. To make whole stuff clear. Hardly, if your partner decides to keep the record track, which is hiding the person's identity from you. Try convince your partner that you are serious about your both relationship. But if your partner is still insecure about yourself, just tell it's unfair for you, because you're not doing it. Preferably if this is the scenario, that means he/she is not meant for you. Your partner trusts the other ones (friends, relatives, or else) rather than you. Begging is a pathetic method, it will not resolve for the solution, but nevertheless some unique couples used well for such method. Anyway it's not a healthy relationship anymore if you're a conservative type. Because such relationship will procreate an overwhelming drawdown for individual who plays as the bottom role. Good luck. Know your limits, sometimes we may learn and mature ourselves from the unfairness state and experiences.
@emma1987 (107)
• China
29 Mar 09
Thanks for your answer.You are right.But my heart is broken.In these days I cant think anythings about us.I just sad. Maybe he is not believe me or believe our four relationships. I spend my best time to stay with him, i cant put down my love. It is a little crazy.