if your friend does this to you will you forgive him/her?
@makeupartisteileen (653)
Singapore
March 30, 2009 3:11pm CST
if your friend force you to come on his wedding , when you really can't make it , end up i try my very best to attend his wedding , but end up on my wedding he promises to come and be my video man ,but end up he did not turn up ,and we try to call him he did not answer the call. we will since very close friend before my wedding, after my wedding he did not keep the promises and did not try to explain to us why he did not turn up and no contacts for the pass 1year
.after 1 an half year later , we saw each other outside, he just say a word sorry did not turn up your wedding because i argue with my wife.
do you believe all the stupid reason? i can't accept such stupid reason , no matter what he should inform us he can't attend , and not after 1year later.we saw each other out side than he explain , and after that he thought we forgive him, he call us like nothing happen,and we keep avoid him.
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@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
30 Mar 09
Personally I would find this a little odd, and to think they waited until then to apologize to you I would find that still a little offensive and hurt even more. I feel that if they were really your Friend they would have let you know that something came up before the Wedding and apologized then for it. Personally I think it would be in your Best interest to chalk this up to a bad event, and move on. You're sure to live a better life without these memories for sure.
@makeupartisteileen (653)
• Singapore
30 Mar 09
ya i feel that when i was unable to attend his wedding he said a lot broke off word , like i know you for so long we are not as normal friend we are best friend, if you really don't turn up i will be very disappointed with you ,all this type of word, so end up no matter what we attend to his wedding .
end up for my wedding i feel he should at least inform us he is coming not, even we call him he not answering , and i feel last time i make the afford to be there is such a wasted .
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
31 Mar 09
It's useless to let this worm to stick around us, watch your back. Don't let it slip into your marriage especially your husband. What a best proof that he can't control himself, he even mentioned a word that's too privacy "I'm sorry ... quarrel with my wife". A guy that's even didn't know what a marriage was, blaming his wife to you. WOW.
I'd rather keep my distance from this guy.
@phoenix79 (302)
• United States
30 Mar 09
wow that really bites. I can not imagine that happening to me. Then again my wedding was very small and everyone showed up on the fly. I was amazed at all the people that showed up at the last minute
