Things to do to enhance the relationship!

China
March 31, 2009 11:57pm CST
1. Get a sleep bag built-for-two. (You know what i mean) 2. Mail a little box of candy conversation hearts 3. Plan Sexy surprise! 4. TELL YOUR MATE THAT YOU --LOVE, ADORE, ADMIRE, CHERISH, DESIRE, WANT, NEED, PRIZE, ESTEEM, IDOLIZE, REVERE, TREASURE--HIM/HER. 5. Cuddle in front of camfire. 6. Wash windows together, with you on the outside, your partner on the inside, facing each other (How sweet!) 7.Cook dinner together (you probally do it all the time) 8.Guys:Help her on with her coat 9.Mark your partner's calendar with your birthday and anniversary. 10.Below buddles on a breezy afternoon and make love to the lights of s single candle. .................. Welcome to share the most romantice things you've done with your partner.
4 responses
@kimandjoe (353)
• United States
1 Apr 09
Buy some SURPRISE lingerie! Write him a top 10 reason list why you love him! cook him dinner Surprise kisses Buy some private oils(youkno) Rub his back for him Keeep lookin good for him!
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• China
1 Apr 09
Sounds great to me. But it's always earier say than done. Any sucessful experience to share with us?
• United States
1 Apr 09
Well when i do these things for my boyfriend it surprises him and makes him really happy... He appreciates me for it.
• United States
1 Apr 09
Last month, I suprised my girlfriend by taking her to Chicago. We spend the day downtown, had a nice late lunch and spent the evening at the house of blues to see her favorite band in concert. The most expensive part of the trip was the gas. I don't think that you have to spend a lot of money to enhance your relationship. I think it's more about doing the little things to let them know that you care and that you do take nn interest in the things that they enjoy. I mean, obviously it's a much smaller list of interests for guys. My girlfriend hates sports, but I'm a huge sportsnut! If my girlfriend was to just sit and watch a football game with me, it would mean more than anything that she could say, because she's taking the time to do something with me that I'm passionate about. (By the way...the lingerie always works too!) lol
• China
1 Apr 09
you are the man! Thanks for sharing your experience with us, your girl friend must be very pround of you! I agreed that to enhance your relationship did not mean that we need to spend big money on it. Little things can show your love and your cares. My boyfriend loves vidio games, i guess i will spend some times even just watching he doing that game. Do you think he will feel good?
• United States
1 Apr 09
I think that just taking an interest would make him happy and perhaps play a game for two player. If you like to cook, it would be the same as if he was to help make dinner. He may not be very good, but it's a chance to spend time together. I think that the only danger in that is when either only one or both people are doing things to make each other happy and there's no activites that BOTH of you enjoy. Ultimately though, if you sincerely take an interest in his games, I think that he would appreciate it. If he doesn't, then he doesn't realize what a good girlfriend you are.
@scgodess (105)
• United States
2 Apr 09
Once in a while I'll leave a sticky not on my husbands computer saying something like "i thought about you alot today" with a heart on it. Or just 'i love you" on it. That usually makes him smile. Once in a while my husband will bring home flowers for no reason.
• China
2 Apr 09
I like that! One of the most moving thing that my BF did was that he make tattoo on his chest, my name was that tattoo, he told me that there will be no spaces from other women for the rest of his life. I was so moved at that moment.
@daliaj (5689)
• India
2 Apr 09
It was very nice to go through your discussion and read the responses from different people. I am newly married and I want to keep the relationship with my husband fresh and interesting. Thank you for everybody who shared their ideas and experiences. It is very useful. I will try soem of them. Happy mylotting.