What will you do if you are not content with your lives

@specific (154)
South Korea
April 1, 2009 2:43am CST
I am here to say something about my lives.Indeed leaving my parents and live on my own really very hard.I live with my classmates who have knowed each other when we were in china.Now in korea we still live together,but we have had very hard times.There is a girl who is very greedy and mean living with us ,which have had made me not happy and really want to beat her.I hate her voice and action which made me have a bad impression on her.Well, it is very complxed to relate.Now, i am upset about my life.Hi,my friends.if you are cornered with this kind of incidents,what will you do to solve the problem?Can you share your idea with me?
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7 responses
@sarahong (91)
• China
1 Apr 09
hi, i live on my own too,somentines i was confused by many problems ,but i must hadle this problem by myself , coz i have grown up i have to learn to face everything by myself ...
@specific (154)
• South Korea
1 Apr 09
Your words cheered me up! Thank you for advice,happy every day!
@maissj (111)
• Philippines
1 Apr 09
i have this cousin in law too, that i hated so much, even her voice bugs me, just thinking that she's living right next to our house makes my blood curdle, and you know what i did? i keep on avoiding her, if she's outside talking out loud, i would turn on the radio and play it loud that it drowns her voice. but then i got tired of doing it so, i calmed myself and counted to 10 while smiling and it helped! it made me hate her less but still, i don't want to talk to her or hear her voice, it just made me tolerate her presence more, hope it will work out for you, SMILE!, mai
@specific (154)
• South Korea
1 Apr 09
Thank you ,my friend!I can understand your feelings, I think that I will ajust myself to the lives or find some measures to solve the problem.
• United States
2 Apr 09
If I was not content with my life at this moment, then I would do everything in my power to make my life better. I would work hard to give myself a better life.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
1 Apr 09
get this down on paper so that you can see what your options are. Make a pro and con list so that you know exactly where you stand. Maybe spending more time out can make living there better, sometimes little things can make big changes, we all have bad times in our lives but they do pass and when we look back we find the lessons we learned were valuable.
• United States
2 Apr 09
I hope so! But must be passion, good luck! God Bless U http://dennycode.blogspot.com
• Indonesia
1 Apr 09
I study at malaysia before.. and leaving my parents too... and study together with my cousin... but in my case.. i really hate my cousin.. so i just move out from my cos... and stay with my friends.... maybe you can ask your friends.. and maybe you and your friends can decide to move out.. and rent another house or room maybe....
@specific (154)
• South Korea
1 Apr 09
I have considered about that,but sometimes I am at a loss .Thank you for your sharing with me,best wishes for you!
• India
1 Apr 09
Yeah.I have same problem like you....But in my case, my co-worker is the problem.......He makes lot of trouble for our team for his personal intention..It is very hard to adjust with this kind of people who doesn't mind others worry..