• United States
9 Apr 09
I am the second wife. Most of the issues I have are self imposed! He does much better than me -- well wait except with dates. His first wife's birthday was June 5th. Mine is much later in June. The first year we were married he brought home roses and lovely gift on the 5th. I bravely took the gifts and said I want glad that we got to celebrate her birthday and I would be expecting another gift on mine. I had to laugh, because the other choice was cry. Then august came and again their anniversary comes before ours - same thing. We confirmed that it would be a tradition and I get gifts for all the dates. I guess I win.