Do you think that love means never having to say " Im sorry?
By liz1122
@liz1122 (47)
United States
April 5, 2009 3:50pm CST
My husband wants me to appologize for something he thinks I did, should I just to make him feel better? He says that if I appologize then he can move on I don't hink that some one should be backed into a corner like this and have their relationship dangled in front of them like this, What's your opinion?
3 responses
@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
5 Apr 09
There are times we have to look at things without emotion. If you know that you hadn't done anything and your husband is saying that you did ask him to explain why he come to this decision all by himself. Apologizing for something you have not done means you are telling a lie and this is wrong in the sight of God.
@UK_Shree (3603)
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5 Apr 09
I don't think it is possible to force anyone to say they are sorry. It needs to come from the heart otherwise it isn't worth very much.
However when sorry is said from the heart, it is a beautiful thing and can often make things better. I don't think that love doesn't need the word 'sorry'. Sometimes, we all need to use that word. Just make sure it is used sincerely.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
6 Apr 09
I don't think you should say sorry unless you mean it and truly are sorry. I believe it is important to admit when we are wrong and offer an apology when it's called for but if you know in your heart that you didn't do anything worthy of a request for forgiveness then your 'sorry' will not mean a great deal.
Are you guilty of something or does he just want you to apologise for something you did not do? If it is the latter it's not fair and he is the one with the problem and surely he can be mature enough to hear you out when you explain that you are not the guilty one!
