what if you found out that your love and your friend were cheating on you?

By eM
@eLsMarie (4346)
Philippines
April 6, 2009 4:14am CST
i have two closest friends, Angeline and Mae, Angeline had a boyfriend named John and they were together for about 3 years. the 3 of us were studying at the same school that's why we became close, however, Angeline's parents had financial problems that's why she was forced to transfer from another school, much cheaper from our school... Mae and John became classmates and since both of them knew Angeline very well they easily get to connect their thoughts. 4 months later, their closeness are becoming extreme that they were already having a secret affair. since Angeline was my friend, i told her everything and right now she's having a tough time thinking of what she should do and not to do... what if you found out that your love and your friend were cheating on you?
5 responses
@axibal (63)
• Philippines
6 Apr 09
since your boyfriend and friend cheats on you, that means that you and your boyfriend doesn't belong to each other. it is a sign that you have somebody out there waiting for you. just look and you might find your other half of your heart. move on.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
6 Apr 09
how i wish Angeline is that strong enough to move on... :(
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
6 Apr 09
ok il tell her what you told me... tnx anyways... :)
@axibal (63)
• Philippines
6 Apr 09
the feeling is only temporary,she can do it. stand up,forget the bad things that happened to her and charge to her experience- because experience itself makes you strong and a better person.she has to move on.
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
6 Apr 09
I'd beat both of them within an inch of their lives then I would kick both of them out of my life....I have zero tolerance for that sort of thing...not just the cheating but the lying, the stabbing me in the back and so on....Thats just a big fat no no with me..
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
6 Apr 09
how i wish my friend Angeline was as strong as you are... :(
• United States
6 Apr 09
i'd kick them both to the curb. a friend that does that to me isn't a friend.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
6 Apr 09
i strongly agree but i don't Angeline could do the kicking... :)
• Philippines
6 Apr 09
Well,I dont want to put myslef on her shoes,however I can give an advice.Its up to you friend on what to do next. Okay,the thing that I can advice is,she should confront the guy.She should for theyre not over yet when he's having an affair with another woman.They should both talk and let the guy explain.Whatever theyre decision is,they should do what is best.Solving a problem like that requires not only emotional aspect but also Logical.Sometime people get blind and deaf whenever they let emotions control them. The GirlFRIEND should also confront your friend.I think she's a bit blameable,I mean,not that its all her fault but what im saying is she is also blamed for what happened.She knows that the guy has a girlfriend already so she should do what is right.Also,when the talk,they should resolve it with understanding,I hope the girl would understand her friend,I agree to the idea that LOVE HAS NO BOUNDARIES.\ Anyways,I hope things get better. An
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
6 Apr 09
ok but i don't think Angeline is ready to have a one-on-one talk with her boyfriend especially my dearest friend... can i be the one to make the first move in order for them to really have a serious talk? my friend right now is really terrible... :(
@habird (50)
• United States
6 Apr 09
Friends like this ,I can't make her be my friend any more. It is sad.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
6 Apr 09
it's so sad that we can no longer be best of friends anymore... :)