Will you be happy living this way?

What if your mom, dad and siblings are all in a different country?

I looked at your profile to see your age so I do understand your fears here. I'll tell you this. When our boy was 19 he had an a job offer in Thialand. He'd never really been out of the state, he wasn't married and if he choose to do this he would be all alone in a foreign country not even knowing the language. We encouraged him to go. We talked via e-mail, msn and on the phone regularly. He was home sick, but the things and new experiences he had were wonderful. As time went on he was getting better. He spend 4 years over there and flew home every 6 months (which is more than most people can do). He is back now and a man we can be proud of. I know that fears run deep. You are going to a place where you don't know anyone and everything is new, but you are still young and you wouldn't be going alone. You would be going with your husband. Your family will always be your family. Buy a webcam and mic and you can still see and talk with them daily over the internet. Don't be afraid to leave them to enbark on a new adventure with your husband. In time you two can always move back and settle closer to your loved ones, but for now - don't be afraid to further develop your relationship with him in another country. I would look at this as an adventure that you two can share for a live time.

Thank you very much... it is really getting more fearful that I don't know why... I want to overcome it too, I do try hard but I just feel very... I don't even know how to explain how I feel in the situation, I love him but I do love my home too...

no!!!!!!!!!!!

Yes, there is way more than that to tell but my husband knew I type some stuff about he and me up here so he told me not to do so... I just want to know what you guys think if you will be happy to give up everything for your spouse...

I do too... a lot a lot... Thanks for responding again! :-)

Thanks for sharing!

Thanks so much!

True... Thanks for responding! :-)