do you think rihanna did the right thing to get back with chris brown?

no id dont belive that she sould take him back he seem like his only trying to do that to ether mess up her caree or to make his better from what i see on pic he look like he don't give a crap about her. That makes me sad.

this is what i believe in. 'we choose our joys and our sorrows long before we experience them'-khalil gibran. I think no one really hits anyone unless they were intentionally provoked in the first place. and whether it was intended to get them pissed enough for them to want to hit that person Or it is possible they had no idea they were already provoking their significant other. Either way, they lack the essential key for any healthy relationship to last, Communication. not a monologue, but a dialogue. give and take. genuine listening to what the other is saying, no matter how boring their partner's day at work was and how redundant it may seem. so now that Rihanna has found out that he is indeed capable of hitting her, getting back with him would only make him think that it is o.k, and it can be forgiven, and it will be tolerated. let me ask you something, if there was something someone thought was So wrong but you were so used to doing, and they stay with you even though they tell you not to do it because it bothers them, yet still they stay? don't you think that there is no indication that it is THAT serious after all? do you think you would be motivated to change what you were so used to doing? or would you keep doing what you think is OK to do because you're girlfriend/boyfriend would not leave you anyway. and it is more comfortable doing things were so used to as opposed to making a change, any change. would you make that change?i personally think that if someone does hit you, you need to let them know that it is wrong and what better way than to leave that person for him/her to Really get the lesson or your point taken seriously. to let that person know that unless he changes, i am gone. so i guess it is possible she might have asked that from him now. and if one day, one bad conversation leads to another, and he does hit her again? but she let's him back in her life? i'd be stupid not to say she's just asking for it. more often that not, people are drawn towards being the victim. who wouldn't want to tell their story of how loving they are because Even though this person is so unlovable, she still manages to hang on and have so much faith that he will change. no matter what this person did to them, she will love him til the end.:) i think we need to learn to love ourselves first. because when we truly do love who we are? we would know we are worth so much more than this. and we demand more, and the person were with is compelled to comply, and they become better while we maintain this great respect for ourselves. its the opposite of that dreadfully common 'vicious cycle' we keep hearing. if i may quote scott peck on this one, 'dependence is not love, it is parasitism'. it is. dependence is what love is not. when we tell someone that i cannot live my life without you? i would die if you leave me! this is not love. it is indeed parasitism. and not only that, its a lie! come on. we've existed long before weve met anyone to be our partner! we didnt die. lol. what love is is when both of you have accepted that you would both be ok without each other. that you would both be fine! But you both choose to be together. this is love. it is the freedom to choose. but be careful, there is a very fine line between choosing good from bad, as C.S. Lewis put it, 'every square inch, every split second, is claimed by God, and counter claimed by Satan.' so let's all choose wisely. and let's all learn from others mistake, it is true that we would not live long enough to make them all on our own:)

Personally, I don't really care. I don't get too wrapped up in celebrity scandals. Even if she went back to him, do you really think she's the first abused woman to return to her abuser? It's very common. More common that you would want to believe. Work at a women's shelter and you'll see what I'm talking about. No matter how terrible the man is to the women, nine times out of ten, she goes back.

No, I think that Rihanna shouldn't have gotten back with him because if a man hits you once then he's more than likely gonna do it again. I dont think its right for any man no matter how famous he is to hit a woman.

Chris Brown disrespect her so she must not come back to him

i second that,rihanna shouldn't come back to chris brown.

Yup, never mind if he's Christ Brown, but he's a jerk with the temper of a tiger, so I think Rihanna shouldn't have allowed herself to be fooled by him again. Is it love, or stupidity? I hope next time, she does not end up in the hospital...well, some people are just plainly stupid, even Rihanna...

I like Rihanna and Chris Brown, and I like them together. They're a cute couple and I thought that they compliment each other.. But that was then.. That was what I thought when 'domestic violence' hasn't been an issue whenever I hear their names mentioned in the news.. I'm not sure whether Rihanna really loves Chris Brown that's why she got back with him after what he did to her. But having come from an abusive relationship, too, once a person hits you, you can not be sure when he'd hit you again.. but he will. So it's better to end the relationship while you can rather than wait for the worse thing to happen.

I think Rihanna is so sweet and beautiful and I'm so afraid he will end up killing her or beating her so bad it causes permanent damage. No man should ever disrespect a woman for whatever reason, and he deserves to be in JAIL for what he did to her! She should drop his a$$ on the curb like he did to her.