I would appreciate if my partner would be........

You did not answer this yourself. What is your answer?"less obligated to help his (so called) friends all the time."That would help a lot. He is always trying to help others. These (most of these so called friends) are not worthy of his help. So many times, people he has helped, start complaining to me. Saying things behind his back. And when they need him again, they call him and expect him to help. Problem is, he does help. He always helps. And when I need him, he is not home! His so called friends treat him like SHT. He is starting to see this, and it really hurts him. He tries not to show it. But I can tell. The friends he has here don't have much brains. They are all so helpless. Like little kids. When we first meet, they all told me to leave my BF. He was not good enough for me. He would make me miserable and unhappy. He was a bad person to start a relationship with. I could only think:"Oh well, I am not perfect either, maybe it will work." If not, it won't be the end of the world. hahaha!Oh no!! I am starting to write a book again. I better stop, hahaha! Take care, see you soon.

Interesting topic....and here goes.. Husband = "I would appreciate if my partner would be alive and fun like he use to be." Boyfriend = "I would appreciate if my partner would have a better understanding of how my brain works." dont get me wrong, I love them both tremendously, if I didnt they wouldnt have been in my life as long as they have on any level and I realize that lifes circumstances for all three of us is a HUGE factor....

Hi, ...my partner would be Balancing the Brain & Heart, as per the situation demands! =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.

less short tempered..coz he really yells everytime we have a fight..and i don't like it ;-)