love or friendship?
By septemberxue
@septemberxue (138)
China
April 10, 2009 11:52pm CST
hello my lotters.
In college,it's common to see friendship among boys and girls.What is difficult is how to deal with personal contacts between different sexes.The key is to differentiate between love and friendship.
Friendship is the basic need of human feelings.Friendship may lead to love.But love does not certainly come from friendship .Friendship is the foundation of love.No love is true without friendship.
Love is selfish and cexclusive,while friendship is selfless and extensive .Love is not necessarily to be returned .But friendship needs a contraet and something in exchange.
I belive there exists pure friendship in sexes .Sometimes the power of friendship surpasses the power of love.There may be misunderstanding and rumors even slanders about heterosexual friendship.In this world there are many inexplieicable things.Actions speak louder than words.
what is your opinion ,my lotters?
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2 responses
@grace24 (1050)
• Philippines
11 Apr 09
Love and friendship. The difference between the two is trust. In friendship there is the presence of love and trust. In love, sometimes it is selfish. Sometimes you may not trust the one that you love. But you can always love the person that you trust in your life. In friendship to different people get to know each other. They developed trust care and love.
@srganesh (6340)
• India
11 Apr 09
First,we have to differentiate between college mates and friends.We can have only few friends if you are about true friendship.That is to share everything and being helpful in your career.About love,you will know it when it strikes.We can't plan in advance to love somebody.That is why we say,falling in love.Just have friendship and if love appears,welcome it.Cheers!
