have you ever met a boyfriend who dont believe in love?
By christian1
@christian1 (134)
Greece
April 11, 2009 12:46am CST
everytime i say i love you to my boyfriend he laugh and say"i dont believe in love."and ten times i ask him why were staying together if we dont love each other.hes giving me back the question with his answer."because we like to stay with each other or maybe because we need each other these dyas..if the'lovers'dont like each other anymore they get divorce..is that love?"do you think this man our relationship will lasts?
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@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
11 Apr 09
I havent met someone who didn't believe in love, but I have met men who didn't believe in marriage which made it hard to have a serious relationship with him because I do want to get married. I couldn't see a lasting relationship with someone who didnt want to be married.
@mira91 (985)
• Singapore
11 Apr 09
Have you ever thought that maybe he's too afraid because of some past experiences or because of some events that have left a mark on him to admit that he does believe in love? Maybe it's of that case but if it isn't than i don't think your relationship will last if he doesn't beleive in love...It takes two to clap in a relationship...If you get what i mean
Nevertheless, it's just an opinion though...take care mate~
@iskayz (5420)
• Philippines
11 Apr 09
Hi there!
I think your boyfriend doesn't love you at all. He already said it and it's so obvious with his answer "maybe we need each other these days", meaning, he could only be needing you now or maybe tomorrow. He has no deeper connection with your feelings and that he only stays with you because he some use of you for now. He doesn't care for you obviously.
I'm sorry this could hurt you but to me that kind of man is not a good boyfriend that's the type who can be a long term partner. I suggest find someone who knows the true meaning of love.
Ciao!
I think your boyfriend doesn't love you at all. He already said it and it's so obvious with his answer "maybe we need each other these days", meaning, he could only be needing you now or maybe tomorrow. He has no deeper connection with your feelings and that he only stays with you because he some use of you for now. He doesn't care for you obviously.
I'm sorry this could hurt you but to me that kind of man is not a good boyfriend that's the type who can be a long term partner. I suggest find someone who knows the true meaning of love.
Ciao!
@srganesh (6340)
• India
11 Apr 09
A friend can just exist as a friend and he need not be converted into a lover.As for your boyfriend,he sees you only as a friend and the spark of love is not on the way with you.That is why,he is saying that he doesn't believe in love.For you,if you need his friendship,then continue just as a friend.Cheers!
