How to get along well with your lover?

@yinmm007 (605)
China
April 11, 2009 8:36am CST
My girlfriend is a beautiful and cute girl.We love each other.But recently she often upset.And i want to make her happy but when i ask the reason she just tell me"do not worry about me.It is my own problem,nothing to do with you.".I have to do nothing but wait.I feel frustrate. I am confused why she do not share her unhappy things with me.I want to help her and share both happy and unhappy experience with her. What should i do?Do you ever have the same perplexity?How to get along well with lover?
2 responses
@chookie1971 (2276)
• Australia
11 Apr 09
The only thing that I really can think of is when she is upset and she doesn't want to talk about it, just let her know that you are there for her if she wants to talk. Just tell her that by talking about a problem, even if you can't help her, may help her feel at ease. What ever the problem may be, always remain cool and calm. But really don't force her to talk about it if she doesn't want to.
@yinmm007 (605)
• China
11 Apr 09
Thank you very much for your advice.In past i often feel unhappy too while she didn't tell me the reason.I will give her more freedom and accompany her everyday.
• China
11 Apr 09
well ,yinmm007,maybe your girlfirend is just capricious,what upseted her may not your fault ,and she can recover herslef when the time is okay,so relax ! have a good day and wish you and your GF have a happy ending