what have you learned from your past relationships?

@jane9147 (252)
Philippines
April 12, 2009 7:11am CST
i never had a boyfriend before so i don't have my own experience to learn from. however, i look at the relationships of the people around me. most of them, the people i know, are not in good terms with their exes. some of them are still dwelling in their pasts and have hard time letting go. (maybe it's that hard). most of them, they usually say that you must leave something for yourself. don't give the person you love everything you have. but when they find another partner, love-interest whatever, they still commit the "mistakes" they did during their past relationship. so you see, i am kind of having a hard time learning from their ways. hehe. but somehow i understand them. how about you mylotters, what have you got to share about this?
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@irene66 (1671)
• Philippines
12 Apr 09
I think giving it all to your partner depends on the depth of the relationship you have. You can give it all if you know your partner is serious with you. It is always safe to be sure so that you won't regret in the future. But if you have given all and the relationship did not work, then accept it. why dwell when in fact it was your decision to do so. Though it is painful moving on is the best way to enjoy life.
@marciascott (25557)
• United States
12 Apr 09
Yes, I have learned. You learn from your mistakes.