Would you go for the one YOU LOVE or for the one who LOVES YOU?

Philippines
April 12, 2009 9:40pm CST
Seriously, would you go for the one you love or for the one who loves you? Why so?
11 responses
• Philippines
13 Apr 09
what a weird case huh...hehehehe...my sister always says, go for someone who loves you more than you love...but oh her case...he also loves the guy...as for me...like my friend said...if the one you love is not loving you...at first you will try to win him/her...but if life is not making its way to get what you want, it's not bad to settle for someone who loves you, you might not notice it, but sooner or later you will learn to love that person too. happy mylotting!
• Philippines
13 Apr 09
thanks for sharing your opinion.... hmmmm yeah (thingking...) :-)
@nympha687 (940)
• United States
13 Apr 09
That's a tough decision to make especially if you are in that situation. For security, I'd go for the one who loves me. Who knows I'd be able to love him also in the end.
• Philippines
13 Apr 09
Yes, though indeed... Thanks for sharing your insight. :-)
@bdayboy09 (153)
• Philippines
14 Apr 09
I'd go for the one I love. I don't want to prolong the agony of the one who loves me. I'd rather tell her my true feelings about her and our situation instead of keeping her in pain for a long time.
@tatiana07 (498)
• Philippines
13 Apr 09
i would go with someone who loves me..i want to be secured with his love.and i know i can return also the love he'll gave me.i'm not hard to pleased.so if someone would show his love for me and i can see and feel that he's sincere then why not give it a try. happy mylotting!
@larish (2195)
• Philippines
13 Apr 09
I will go to the one who loves me because I know I can learn to love him.
@kbkbooks (7030)
• Canada
13 Apr 09
I've almost always gone for the one I love, but I married the one I thought loved me... then everything changed, and yet it took fifteen years for me to realize it. Divorce is nasty. Then I fell in love again, and someone loved me too... and we are together now and it is wonderful. This is the WHY. It's hard to wait for but it's worth it. However, life experience is priceless. I wouldn't know love if I hadn't lost it first.
@prinzcy (5058)
• Malaysia
13 Apr 09
I will go for the one I love if he love me in return. If not, I would go for someone that love me. I know I would learn to return his love and I know that person already love me. I will feel happier that way.
• United States
13 Apr 09
Thats really hard. Because if you go for the one you love, that peson may not love you back. But if you go for the one who loves you, you may not love them or even be capable of ever loving them. Because you cant make yourself love someone if thats not what you want. So i think that i would try for the one I love and see how that goes.
@chiyosan (29383)
• Philippines
13 Apr 09
i would clearly say the one who loves me before i was put in the situation and well.. it is easy for me to love the person.. and i was blinded and when i seriously have thought about it.. it is harder to be with someone you do not and cannot love. i guess i would rather be alone loving someone not loving me than be with someone who loves me but i cannot love.
• China
13 Apr 09
No money no love. Grils always like rich man, I have to make money first.
• United States
13 Apr 09
Wouldnt it be better if it were both. I think so. I wouldnt settle. Me & my husband are high school sweethearts & i would not settle for me loving someone & them just settling or them loving me & me just settling. That's not fair to either party involved.