How are you going these days?

China
April 13, 2009 7:28am CST
I wonder if you notice that I havent been active here for a whole week.I was fooled by a boy last week.He promised to see me but didnt make it.To make the story short,let me tell you directly.We've known online for nearly seven years but never meet in person.He becomes my dreamboy long ago.That was the second time he fooled me.How can I trust him again?He doesnt call me or text me.Im feeling really down.Im trying to get over it now.I will be OK. Im coming back!
4 responses
• India
13 Apr 09
well i think that u should break up with him then.well for me too i loved a girl ,she talked to me very nicely , and told me that i was her best friend. but when i want to talk to her , she always ignored me . so now i have moved away from her.
• China
13 Apr 09
Thanks for your advice.Now I can think unemtionally.He's not for me.
@veejay19 (3592)
• India
14 Apr 09
Thats life, my dear. Its a very small thing to happen and you should take it as such.You are still young and when you are young its easy to fall prey to such people. For the life of me i cannot understand how you can have feelings for someone you have never met or seen. How do you know that he is young, he may be an old man masquerading as a young man.There are many people out to fool others. I will give you an example. Some months ago a young college going girl started to date a person online who was married. She never met him but soon got so involved that she was prepared to marry him when he professed his undying love and when he said that he would leave his wife and children for her. One day he asked her to meet him at a hotel and said that they would elope and get married. At night the girl quietly left her house with a small suitcase and went to that hotel. When she reached it she went up to the hotel room which he had booked. When the man opened the door both of them got the shock of their lives because it was her own father who had been dating her!! This is a true story as i read it in a newspaper.So consider youself to be lucky to have got rid of your " boyfriend ".
@Rozie37 (15505)
• Turkmenistan
13 Apr 09
It sounds to me like it may be best for you to remain online friends at this time. Maybe he is not really ready to meet you yet. You could also sugest that he be honest about his feelings for you.
@kawalnarang (1095)
• Trinidad And Tobago
13 Apr 09
it's so true, Its better to be friends here than meet personally,,enjoy the company right here on My Lot,, see I also wish to meet people,,but when the right time comes,,