Your best friend steals your girl,how do you deal with it ?
By ronnyb
@ronnyb (6113)
Jamaica
April 13, 2009 12:39pm CST
I was just watching Spiderman3 and there was a part where Harry stole Mary Jane from Peter ,his best friend. How would you deal with such a situation ,be angry at your best friend who you have known for years and who has had your back (except in this case lol ),or do you just write off the losses as "promiscuous girl gone" and still be friends with you best friend ?
In the instance Peter was ignoring his girlfriend and so she slipped into Harry's arm, do you think this is justification enough and should that make it easier for Peter to forgive Harry since it is his fault after all.
Your views on this discussion are highly anticipated
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9 responses
@walijo2008 (4644)
• United States
13 Apr 09
I don't think theres any excuse or justification for stealing your best friend's girl or boyfriend. If mine ever did that, I don't think I would forgive her or him for that matter, who needs friends like that.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
1 May 09
I love the saying "Bros before Hos" , In other words, your friendship is more important than any woman that could come between you.That's for two guys . I finally found a saying for women, Friends before Men . if my nest friend and my lover were together then I would write them both off. If I really, really loved him and my friend tok him away, I would look for the best revenge and execute it
@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
15 Apr 09
hey Ron I hope this never happens to you lol. Anyway I think that Peter should continue to talk with Harry seeing that he was the one who let her go. Being distracted and losing the love of your life is not a good thing. It is like being in depression and comes back to see you have lost everything. So if his friendship with Harry is indeed a truthful one then he can overlook this and continue to be friend.
@maygodblessu44 (7336)
• India
15 Apr 09
Hello my friend ronnyb Ji,
Well, if I am Peter, I would just leave it as a natural event. Probably, my friend
Harry's requirement was much more than mine and would allow time to settle the issue
in its natural way, by waiting and watching. This will be without any ill-feeling
against my friend Harry. May god bless you and have a great time.
@mira91 (985)
• Singapore
15 Apr 09
Yea i guess it is justification enough since it wasn't really intentional that Harry 'stole' mary jane....But i think the girl is at the most wrong here...If she really feels strongly about Peter, then wouldn't she want answers from Peter? And how could she love someone else while still loving peter? (and it's obvious she still does in the movie when she was in harry's arms..lol) So i guess Harry isn't really at fault here since his actions weren't intentional....^_^
@gbeny007 (14)
• Jamaica
15 Apr 09
I hope my best friend does not do this. I think that Mary should have understand that Peter was under tremendous pressure and so shouldn't fall over to Harry's. But you know how men are always using the slightest opportunity to woe a pretty girl.lol Well Peter can forgive Harry and continue with the friendship. He can learn from this mistake and know that no matter how distracted you are never leave that special one out.lol
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
14 Apr 09
Cool! I would steal my friend's girl friend from him. In that way, I will get my girl back, isn't that easy!
I would belive that I can't even chat with my friend after he stealing my gf. It would be un accpetable. My friendship will be over after that incident and I will try my best to get back my gf in my bedroom from his.!!!
@neerajpandey_13 (1765)
• India
14 Apr 09
If he do this , then he was not my best friend at all. I can't tolerate this type of thing from him. He act like enemy in this case. I am against this.
