Is it hard to live a life single

I am single and have been always! I have never been married and never will be! It is my chose! I went through what you are now about everyone asking when will you get married! Living single is the best! You don't have to answer to anyone! You can go and come when you want! You can do what you want! You don't have to do something you don't like!You don't get nagged! You can date if you like or not! There is no argueing! No one to tell you to clean up if you don't want to! You have to do someone elses laundry or cook for more then one! There is no bills to fight over! You are your own boss! You can watch any tv program you want! No one borrowing your car! You can hang out with you friends and not worry! You can be happy and I am! It does get lonely once in awhile but that is the only down fall!

I totally understand where you are coming from! Everyone in my family meets their significant other before the age of 20, married by 22 and on their way to having kids. I went against the grain. My grandparents and other family always asked when I was going to settle down. I don't think it's harder to be single, but I guess it just depends on how you look at it. I'd rather be single, than in a relationship that was all stress and fighting and drama. I just let people know that I hadn't met Mr. Right yet, and I wanted to be sure it was the right decision. That usually held them at bay...at least for a few months