will we ever get back on track
By arabellazoie
@arabellazoie (73)
Philippines
April 14, 2009 10:47pm CST
how complicated love life would turn out if there are changes and both are not ready for that. anyway...today officially he left me to think...i dont know why or just cant understand him. do really men are these cowards?
Olen and i have been steady for almost 3years now and 7months ago i found out i got pregnant,...at first few months we have planned the church wedding and then after a few weeks since he lost his job suddenly we have agreed on to a civil wedding..and then all of a sudden he changed his mind of the wedding and decided to put it on hold after 2years. to make matters worse he left me. now im alone, crazy life.
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@floridaangel (28)
• United States
15 Apr 09
Having a child is a MAJOR change in anyones life. He may just be afraid and needs his time to figure things out. Hang in there and keep the lines of communication open. If everything does not work out romantically, you need to stay civil with him for the sake of the child. :) Most of the time, they are scared more than anything and just don't know how to express their feelings.
While it is hard to deal with being alone at this time, surround yourself with positive friends who will help you thru labor, delivery, and after. Its really great to have someone that can be there for you while at the hospital.
PS--congrats on the baby :)
@specialkdub (106)
• United States
20 Apr 09
Well congrats on being pregnant I also found out I was pregnant 7 months ago so now im 29-30 weeks. He may just need a little space to process it all a baby is a big pill to swallow. I hope everything works out for you and I wish you the best of luck.
