i think im falling hard
@thatladiikatie (38)
United States
April 15, 2009 6:20pm CST
this guy i met he just is the knight in shining armor for me, he listens like REALLY listens, complements me all the time. Always supportive. Only draw back is he has a girl friend and lives 40 minutes away. i have feelings for him and he has feelings for me. what should i do?
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@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
16 Apr 09
In order for this to work there would have to be a set time limit put on when you continued to live apart. He would have to ditch his girlfriend and you would become exclusive.
Right now he has the best of both worlds. Not a good thing for you.
If I were you and you felt that he was falling in love with you also I would begin insisting on resolving those things as soon as possible. A long term relationship will never work if you can not be together at some point in the future. If that will be impossible then you may want to begin pulling away and find someone closer to you. That may hurt to do that but not nearly as much as it will later when you have vested much more time in him and then it go bad.
This will not be easy for you but you really must be realistic about where you are going with this.
@thatladiikatie (38)
• United States
16 Apr 09
thanks :) im not at the point its too late to turn back around. I'm not even sure if i would want this to go any further bc 1st impressions (having the girlfriend) are the most important. Im not sure if i could even trust him if he left her although he's told me his reasons for talking to me, and ignoring her. which they sound good but they could be lies.
@prinzcy (32322)
• Malaysia
16 Apr 09
Does his feeling for you is also love? You said he has a girlfriend. I think you can forget about him. Things like this happen sometimes. You meet a great person and can't help falling in love with him but a great person usually has someone great besides him as well.
@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
16 Apr 09
Well come to MYLOT. Forgot about him and don't even think of going there. You are nice and intelligent and so you will get your knight in shining armor one day. If you cannot be friends then avoid him. How would like to know that you have your boyfriend and only to see that some stray girl took him away from you. Remember that it is not all that glitter is gold.
