Can you help me?

no body can help you but yourself,i know shenzhen is a city with a large population.are you a farouche man?or your require to girl is exigent?,otherwise you can find your life partner.please make friends with different people.good luck!

I'm sure the place where you live have a lot of women that are available. Don't rely on online dating..its hardly works! So, you are 31, so what..age is not a big deal. Maybe you look younger than your age. :D...Just take it easy, don't rush to things like this...You can start by making friends with women surround you, at your work place maybe. Sincerely be their friends and you can start to get to know them. Then I am sure, someday you will find someone that suits you. Then you will be happy to get married..and not just because you need to get married coz you are 31..Good Luck to you lujiangyf...:)

have you tried mail order bride? they will much like money and send you woman you can't see until wedding! you are pleased to read my reply!

I understand, I also have many friends like that struggling the same problem. Maybe one thing you should do is to get involve in your society, make friends with other people, join some groups and organizations. Somehow, you'll meet someone you're looking for. Just don't limit your scope about friendship, smile and don't worry you're still young, also wear a smile everyday so people will appreciates and notice you and most important is that ask guidance from God to help you find the right person.

hi lu..., can i call you lu?, you're in 31 and don't have a life partner yet.., don't be stress about it. i'm sure you'll get the one you love immediatly. chher up man.., there're plenty women in this world, especially in your country, the number 1 people in the world.., i'm sure there're more girl then boy isn't it...;-)