Irritating One

Australia
April 16, 2009 10:43am CST
Hi everyone! I'm so annoyed with this girl who I met just about a month ago and from that time she's been like a sticker who has stuck into my house not willing to leave it! None of my housemates including me likes her company as she has her own negative qualities. She comes to my house at her own time and sits in our bedroom for hourse even if we ignore her. She'll spend the weekend with us even if we don't interact with her much. Her behaviousr is very irritating. Have you ever come across such situations?
2 responses
@jands1 (835)
• United States
16 Apr 09
I have enigma_85. I really sympathize with your situation. When I dealt with this, I had to sit down with the person and explain how negative energy is very stressful. My doctors told me to reduce and eliminate my stress due to being a cancer survivor. Therefore, I needed her to try to focus on the positive. Once she had done so, my heart and life were open to her. I wished her much luck and love in life. Then, I cut off contact. Unfortunately, she never did. She continues to this day, to be a Drama Queen.
• Australia
17 Apr 09
Thanks for your response jands! It's good that you actually tried to explainn that person.
@jands1 (835)
• United States
17 Apr 09
Well, I felt I owed it to her as a human being. No one likes the idea of someone suddenly cutting them out of their life. With no explanation. How is it going for you enigma_85. Any luck with the latched on person?
@Citychic (4067)
• United States
10 Jun 09
Irritating one.......... Hi Enigma_85, I have heard of people who do things like this and I've even had a few to come over but I would politely tell them after a while, Look I'm going to go and do something you need to be leaving. It sound as if you are too nice of a person and that you don't want to hurt her feelings but if she was around me, she'd have to find herself some place else to hang out at. Good luck and best wishes!