do you think there is some one that can control ourself?

well i really think it is how we are raised... everyone was raised different and some dont know no better.. so maybe walk a day in someone elses shoes would answer this question.

You can be controlled if you are not careful and sometimes by the ones you love the most. We like to go around thinking that people always have what's best in mind for us but that is not always the case. There are people out there that are real good at manipulating and making people do what they want. Some may do it in a nice way and others may do it in a mean way. Control like everything else can come in different shapes and sizes and if one is not careful, one can easily fall under the control of someone and not know it. Always think for yourself and when someone suggests something, think to yourself is this benefiting me or them? Always think for yourself. Trusting people is essential to good relationships just make sure you always have both eyes open. Take Care and Blessings to All

Only one thing on earth can control me and that;s LOVE. I get so much mesmerised and surrendered in front of true love and compassion. So, that is one thing that controls me and gets me going. Happy loving[u][/u]

i wont allow anyone who can or has ability to control me,i control myself,no matter what i do or have to do,i just like to lead my live actively and positively .even when i am in the office, my boss can not control me as well. if someone is right,i may listen to his advice,but if he talks nonsense,there is no way i follow his advice:)

I think only you who can control yourself nobody else...

of course. the devil can. that is, if we give it permission to:) we need to be aware that we we're given Free Will. free will to choose what we want. be it good or bad. we were granted free will to choose what and who we want to become. we cannot even begin to feel sad unless we give someone permission to be believable in what he or she is saying! i know the saying that says*sticks and stones may break my bones but words can never hurt me, is not as accurate as it might seem. because reality is, words do hurt. and words will continue to hurt. the question is, once you hear those hurtful words, why choose to stay and listen to it when you can simply leave? before anything else, i need to make it clear that i am not so certain i even understand your question. do you mean, is there someone that can control himself? or is there someone that has the ability to control another human being? if it is the latter, then No. as khalil gibran have said, 'we choose our joys and our sorrows long before we experience them.' and i believe this to be true. because whatever state we're in right now? minus the freak accidents and mass killings that cannot be overlooked, aside from that fact, whatever state were in here and now, we chose to be in it. no one can tell us do something unless we first agree that it is true and end up doing it ourselves. we all have a choice, whether were aware of it or not, whether we choose to be aware of it or not, we already made the choice. even when we choose not to choose, we have already chosen:) so choose wisely stranger! and i hope i answered your question.