Getting married, but still love an ex..............

Well I hope she does have good feelings for her ex. If you go out with someone for a while you must like them a lot or you wouldn't go out with them. However, going out with someone is different from committing yourself to marriage for the rest of your life. I still have very fond feelings for all my girlfriends of 40 years ago.

Maybe she should wait to get married till she's sure she's over the ex. I know there are ppl that still stay friends with their ex's (I never have) but since your saying she still has feelings for him...it just sounds like she's not ready to move on. [b]~~AT PEACE WITHIN~~ **STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS**[/b]

Is'nt this ironic! Why are you getting married if you are not sure? Anyone forcing you to get married in June? You will just add a new problem to your life and this is so UNFAIR to your future partner. Think if you were on the other side of fence. Are you mature enough to decide? You are the only one who can make this decision regardless of advices. Try to find your inner self and find out what you really want!

this is bad, once you have a commitment you shouldn't look behind to the past.

Hi Queenperk I suggest you to advice her to make up her mind soon. Its either her ex or her husband to be. She might spoil her marriage life if she goes on in the way she is now. Loyalty ans Sincerity is important and your frind need to realize it before it becomes too late. Thanusha

if she still have feelings for her ex... and those feeling could affect her relationship... then quit, don't get married.. more people could get hurt in the end

this is really being selfish. if she still has feelings and have issues with her ex.. why would she be in a new relationship anyway. she can't have the best of everything she shouldn't have led her fiance into believing a lie about her wanting to marry him. it is about time to let the fiance know and let them sort it out first. marrying someone you dont love is really hard...

She clearly does not know what she wants and does not know how to say what she feels. Talk with her and ask her to go some place where she can be alone and thing things over. Being married is a life long contract and is a realationship with someone you love right? I mean that's what I think... coz the others marry for different reason.. Anyway she has to deal with her feelings with her ex because if she does not.. it will haunt her over and over and can lead to a broken marriage, and what if they already have kids? then it will lead to a broken family... which id not good at all..

ask clearly to her about urself ur taste ur thinking & relationship. and what she want actualy if whe want to married its ok if she says she wants someone else then say ok nothing else