Missing someone you love
By Redhornet117
@Redhornet117 (1248)
Philippines
April 18, 2009 9:34am CST
Have you ever missed someone that you really really love? Someone so special in your heart that you want to be with them again even for just a moment? Me, I miss my grandmother. She is the best there is. I felt her love for me, just like my mom, since I was just a little boy. She took really good care of me and we had so many happy memories. But unfortunately God took her already. Now, I'm thinking that we should've done a lot more things together and I should've have spent more time with her when I had the chance.
5 responses
@larish (2191)
• Philippines
19 Apr 09
I miss my best friend, we haven't talk for one day. We had a fight last Saturday night. I got mad because he didn't keep his promise again. I just want to feel respected by not giving me false hope. I really miss him but I have to control myself of not talking to him because I want him to feel that promises should not be broken. He's been like this for the past months. And I am really offended by it.
You're grandmother has been watching over you and I know she is proud of what you became.
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
18 Apr 09
Yes I miss somebody I really loved to be someone else. Life turned out to be a bulls tail and all the hope of union got mingles with the infinity and now I am standing at a corner where memory stares hard and force to go down the memory lane.
It was to happen and there is no alternative or whatsoever. I personally do not believe is alternative for everything is unique and hence the same can be applied and the person I missed was of a different chemical and finally there was parting and since then is is almost 16 years I have not seen her and now I am living with a different life partner who was never supposed to have come. I wonder life is noway predictable.
And now I leave all to the infinite 'I" where all submerge together.
@Redhornet117 (1248)
• Philippines
18 Apr 09
You are very deep my friend. Your heart knows how to love sincerely. After 16 years and I think you still love her. I think she is your one true love, she's the one that you can never forget. Your heart beats for her. Why not try giving her a call, just to say hello?
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@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
18 Apr 09
No friend , I know not her whereabouts nor any contact number and she is married to somebody else and I do not wish to spoil a family.
What
say?
say?@Redhornet117 (1248)
• Philippines
18 Apr 09
I see. I guess the time for you and her had past already. Somethings are not meant to be. It's sad though, but we just have to be happy now with what we have. I guess you had very nice memories with her, and I'm also guessing she had very happy memories of you too. I think she was happy when you were together and, like you, she became sad when you are no longer together. And like you also, maybe she missed you too when you were gone. But time passed now, we just have to move on and take care of the family.
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@michele_villasenor (624)
• Philippines
18 Apr 09
I miss my mom a lot. Not having her in my life now that I am a mother myself is really difficult to deal with. But life's like that. You cannot have everything, so they say.
@michele_villasenor (624)
• Philippines
19 Apr 09
Thank you. And I salute all the mothers out there as well.
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
18 Apr 09
Hi, thanks for appreciating my words and selecting it to be a BR.
@Redhornet117 (1248)
• Philippines
18 Apr 09
Well, life goes on, so they say. Sometimes we have to have hard times to really appreciate the good times. And I know it's hard being a mom, you only not take care of the kids, but you have to take care of everything- the house, the pets, the finances, work, and the husband. Kudos to all moms out there. I salute you!
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@eshaan (6188)
• India
18 Apr 09
yes thatz y it is said that enjoy each moment of your life as if it is the last moment of your life, so that you can live the life to the fullest. There are many dear persons in my life those i miss today, but we should not regret longer and try to be happy with their memories otherwise their soul will not be at peace. Cheers !!!
@Redhornet117 (1248)
• Philippines
18 Apr 09
Ya, I agree. We should make every moment count when it comes to being with someone that we love. We never know when it will be the last time that we see them. Let's make every minute the best minute we ever have with them.
@eshaan (6188)
• India
18 Apr 09
sometimes when we are with the persons we love it happens that we dont understand how dearly we love them and when they are away or we cant meet them again, then we feel their importance...so when we are with them take aminute to think what they are worth to us.
@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
21 Apr 09
i love and misses my grandma too... but fortunately with me... we spent alot of happy and joyous times together... she even inspires me of so many things and teach me unusual stuffs... but im happy because i know shes at rest now and happy wherever she may be... love you lola!
@Redhornet117 (1248)
• Philippines
21 Apr 09
Lola's are the best. My lola would scold my mom whenever my mother would scold me. LOL. She's like my guardian angel. She comforts me when I'm sad, she would tell me stories or would get me some food so that I won't be sad anymore. Maybe your lola and my lola are out there in heaven watching over us. LOL
