Is this a real love? Or just a story?

Philippines
April 18, 2009 2:26pm CST
Do I really an insane or is this love was real. I have responded on a topic asking if I still remember my first crush well actually no because every time I see a girl with an innocent face I remember my first love, a love that never been given a chance. Actually I never realized that I loved this girl only after we graduated on high school because she has her boyfriend already. And after the graduation and we all separated to go on our own paths, I've been always thinking of this girl all day long and I can't get rid of her on my mind. She's always running on my mind! Doesn't she feel tired??? Lol. Joke only. Lets continue. Then I made a promise to myself that I will find her and wait for my time to let my love for her be returned for me too even if it took years actually its been 3 years since I'm waiting for my chance to for her to know about my love. So can you tell me now if this kind of love is real? Whats your thoughts about these. Feel free to comment, thanks a lot.
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AikaruJ
@AikaruJ (281)
• Philippines
19 Apr 09
For me, that kind of love is real.. its pure, and its true.. You will only wait that long for someone you really care about and someone you really love.. If your feelings are strong, your being patient will pay off.. When you wait for someone you really love no matter how long it will take you, and end up being with her for the rest of your life, It will always be the most rewarding, satisfying and the happiest feeling you'll ever feel. I, too, waited for lets say 2 years for my best friend.. He's the one that i truly love.. Now, after that long time of waiting, i ended up with him.. and now, i'am so happy living my life with him.. I can truly say that that is the most rewarding feeling i've ever felt in my life.. Its not easy to wait that long.. it takes a real man to wait that long without giving up!.. happy mylotting!
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babyfazt09
@babyfazt09 (144)
• Philippines
20 Apr 09
I really do believe that love is for real. You wouldn't wait for so long if you hadn't been deeply inlove with her. Have you found her? Well, i think that it wouldn't be better if will do that. You said that she has already a boyfriend and if ever you found her and find out that they are still together or with somebody else already, it would just hurt you for sure, right? So, might as well move on. Don't despair to much for there are still lots of fish in the sea.
lilaclady
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
18 Apr 09
I believe if you want something bad enough and you think about it and dream of it it will come true...it happened to me and I think it all has to do with positive thinking..but i think you can still enjoy your young life with others as well until your dream comes true...
oyenkai
@oyenkai (4394)
• Philippines
20 Apr 09
I think that if you want her to love you back just because you love her... then that's it's not yet love. I consider love as involving two people in a commitment that would help both of them grow individually (and thus grow as a couple). That means that if you think your love for her will make her an even better person, then it's love. But if all you want is for her to return your affections - then frankly, I think that's subconscious pride :) Thanks for the response on my discussion!