jealousy..why do you get jelous
April 18, 2009 3:44pm CST
Hi there...this just popped into my head.. why do you get jelous? is it because someone has his/her attention? If you don't feel anything fot that person, would you feel jelous? you would not care at all right? But if you do...why? Just a question..anybody want to answer?please do.. Thanx!
22 Apr 09
Good question. I am also wondering why I get jealous. There are times I cannot find an answer about my jealousy or maybe I just don't like to admit how stupid or shallow I might be at those times. I easily get jealous every time I saw my boyfriend having communication with his ex girlfriends like when that girl send him a forwarded text message even if he don't reply. They say that maybe I am insecure. I disagree because why should I get insecure when in the first place I am the present and those girls are his past. Until now, I still don't get it.
23 Apr 09
yes.. you are the current but maybe you are thinking that his past may come back and catch him and that's what's bothering you. Jealousy for me is what you feel when he gives attention to other things than you... when he gives other people importance than your time... I get jealous ... I know it's bad..but I can't help to feel this way. It's a subconscious feeling which I try to deny and ignore but It just comes... It just shows that I care