jealousy..why do you get jelous

April 18, 2009 3:44pm CST
Hi there...this just popped into my head.. why do you get jelous? is it because someone has his/her attention? If you don't feel anything fot that person, would you feel jelous? you would not care at all right? But if you do...why? Just a question..anybody want to answer?please do.. Thanx!
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@yonkie (440)
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
Good question. I am also wondering why I get jealous. There are times I cannot find an answer about my jealousy or maybe I just don't like to admit how stupid or shallow I might be at those times. I easily get jealous every time I saw my boyfriend having communication with his ex girlfriends like when that girl send him a forwarded text message even if he don't reply. They say that maybe I am insecure. I disagree because why should I get insecure when in the first place I am the present and those girls are his past. Until now, I still don't get it.
• Philippines
23 Apr 09
yes.. you are the current but maybe you are thinking that his past may come back and catch him and that's what's bothering you. Jealousy for me is what you feel when he gives attention to other things than you... when he gives other people importance than your time... I get jealous ... I know it's bad..but I can't help to feel this way. It's a subconscious feeling which I try to deny and ignore but It just comes... It just shows that I care
• India
22 Apr 09
Its a natural thing yaar .. when you see ur love with some one else you bound to get little jealous . if you don't care then only you won't get jealous
@luphita (114)
• Indonesia
20 Apr 09
you have the same condition with me. i ever felt jealous with my beloved girl because when i sent a message to her, she gave no response and when i saw her in the school she always felt happy with another man.
• India
19 Apr 09
If we compare ourselves from other then automatically, we are jealous of other. But if we don't do this silly mistake then we are not jealous of others.
@zoey7879 (3104)
• United States
18 Apr 09
It's quite difficult to make me jealous. What I recently thought was jealous turned out to only be bitterness and spite. lol
@dodo19 (33974)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
18 Apr 09
No, I don't get jealous very easily. I trust him and I don't have any reason to doubt my fiance, or anything like that. I'm just not the jealous kind of person. It's just the way I am. I have no reason to suspect anything.