When your close friend is in low spirits......

China
April 19, 2009 6:07am CST
Hello mylotters, How to make your best friend happy when he or she is in low spirits? Now my close friend is depressed even though she pretends that everything is ok. The other day she knew that his previous boyfriend is going to get married. It really shocked her. To be honest, i know they still love each other, but because of many complicated reasons, they have to get departed. It is a pity. I don't ask her more about it, i don't know what to do? Hope time will heal her!
3 responses
@kaleem_jr (106)
• Pakistan
1 May 09
Hello all, quite ineresting discussion. We are a different situations in here. I have heard God helps those who help themselves. Regardless of the relation it becomes a duty as a kindhearted simple human being to help anyone around us in low spirit. But when you've had any close relation that the duety gets doubled I think.
@mira91 (985)
• Singapore
19 Apr 09
If they still love each other, why did the guy went and get married? Forced perhaps? =\ Yea, there's only so much we, as close and best friends can do....All you have to do is be with her...Be by her side. I'm sure with your support by just being there is helping her cope with it....But i still think that laughter is the best medicine...=]
• India
19 Apr 09
well for my case most of the times im depressed but no one come to cheer me..well ur friend is lucky to have such a friend like u . i think it will better if u sit with here and take here to a restaurant to eat then i think she will feel a bit happy.