How would you feel if your husband/wife lost your wedding ring?

@n30wing (4771)
Philippines
April 22, 2009 1:39am CST
I'll really gonna feel bad, and piss off for a while. I'll tell her to look for it first, she just maybe misplace it. If not what can I do! I'll just buy us a new set of rings to wear on our fingers. How about you guys what would you do and feel about it. Anyway have a nice day to all of you!
7 responses
@zoey7879 (3104)
• United States
22 Apr 09
It's a ring.. a piece of jewelry, a symbol. Accidents can and do happen. What matters is the love, not the jewelry.
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@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
25 Apr 09
Hi zoey, I know it's just a material thing, but still it's our marriage ring, she can lost her cell phone but not our wedding ring. I'll really feel bad if ever. Have a nice day to you!
• Philippines
11 May 09
I agree... The ring is just a symbol of your love. It doesn't matter if you lose it or not. The important thing is that you love each other and cherish every moment you have.
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
This is just exactly what me and my husband were talking about yesterday and many times before that. We share the same points of view towards our wedding rings. It can be lost due to some reasons that are not of our own doing. Yes, our wedding rings symbolize our bond as husband and wife, but losing one or both doesn't mean that the love that brought us together is also already gone. We sometimes forget to wear the rings (because we always take them off our fingers the instant we enter our home) and we do not put so much attention to that. What matters is we know we are secured in our love and commitment to each other and we believe it is God who unites and keeps us closer to each other. Hello, n30wing!
@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
25 Apr 09
Hi alexandra, thanks for that advice. How sweet the two of you. I agreed with what you've said. But I'll feel bad, but for a while. But our commitment and love for each other wont change. I'll just buy us another pair hehehe! Have a nice day to both of you! God bless!
• Philippines
25 Apr 09
Gee, this is just one of my best days! "When it rains it pours" just aptly describes the events happening to my myLot world lately! You've just awarded me my fourth BR in four consecutive days! Thanks a lot n30wing! May God bless your union with your wife even more with or without the rings! ^_^
• United States
29 Jun 09
I was upset when hubby lost his ring! Especially since our minister had left the area we can't just get another blessed ya know?!?!? Then he found it. Then he lost it for good. I bought a cheap replacment and he lost that too. But now his work will not allow them to wear their bands wich has me even more upset. I dunno, I like to look @ his ring and know that the whole world knows he's special to his wife.
@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
1 Jul 09
Hi 3SnuggleBunnies,I'll feel the same thing if it happens to me. But I'll keep buying her a ring if she lost it again and again. I s there an office that you can't wear your ring on it. Cause I like people seeing me wearing my ring that I am already have someone who I love and treasured. Anyway have a nice day to you!
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
My husband lost his wedding ring. Of course, I felt bad after it happened but then it was an accident, I know he felt bad too when he lost the ring. It would be pointless if I nag him or quarrel with him about it because no amount of words or quarreling will bring back the ring. And besides, the ring is just a symbol of our bond. If we lose the symbol, it does not mean that the bond is lost too.
@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
25 Apr 09
Hi bluengel, I'll feel bad, but what can I do. Even we quarrel about it or argue, it's already there. I like what you said that it doesn't mean that the bond is lost too. My love for her wont change anyway! Have a nice day to you!
@brisk123 (2826)
• India
22 Apr 09
Hello my friend,If my husband lost his wedding ring, of course I will feel very bad and upset but it depends on how and where he lost it.I might ask him to search and look for it carefully, maybe it can be misplaced.However,if it is because of his negligence and carelessness then I might be angry with him too.Wedding ring means so much to me than just a simple finger ring.It is a bond. Also, accidents can do happen and one can lose the ring.That is acceptable,it may upset me but I will try to digest the fact that he had lost his wedding ring.Get him another similar one and put on.Have a lovely day!
@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
1 Jul 09
Hi brisk123, once she lost our wedding ring, I'll feel upset, I just hope she can look for it, or I'll really feel so terrible. I know for a while I'll just be quiet, but for sure I'll buy her another one. I just want to see her wearing one again. Anyway have a nice day to you!
• China
22 Apr 09
What a pity! That's wedding ring, It's important for the couple. Of course losing one we can buy a new one but I think the meaning is different. At the bottom of my hear the wedding ring is the only and no one can replace it.
@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
25 Apr 09
Hi melodyguo, I know it's important for a couple, even I buy us a new pair. I know accidents do happen. Anyway what can I do it already happen. Anyway what counts it's still US and nothing will separate us. Hve a nice day to you!
@donsky14 (5965)
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
I would feel bad as well knowing that my partner doesn't give importance to special things like that. A wedding ring is like our bond...so if he looses it...then its like he doesn't care at all.
@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
25 Apr 09
Hi donsky14, same here with me, cause it symbolizes my love to her, and she should take care of it. I'll really gonna feel bad, even I'll buy a new pair, nothing will compare the first rings we had. Anyway have a nice day to you!