will you mind your bf has a kid but he didn't married

China
April 22, 2009 2:55am CST
One day if you meet a man,you two get fall in love,then oneday you find he has a kid but he didn't married.And he already broke up with ex-girlfriend What will you do?
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@youless (87490)
• Guangzhou, China
22 Apr 09
Yes, I will mind it. As I don't want to get married with someone who has a child or divorced. I can't accept to it. It's OK that he had a relationship with another girl in the past. But marriage and child are not something I can accept. Because you can't ask him not to contact with his child. He has the responsibility to his child. And I think it will have an effect on our marriage anyway. I love China
• China
23 Apr 09
AGREE WITH YOU. He has duty on her.Then it does have effect on our relationship.
@mymaria (379)
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
hi, for me, its depend upon the situation if both family were okey. I dont want to have a conflict in my life, so i need to set my self free and think about that matter. then if i ready to accept that responsibilities maybe y not. i always consider many things before i will make my decission okey.
• China
23 Apr 09
You are really a reasonable person. I do mind if the kid lives with us.But i married him since his kid lives in her aunt's home,won't stay with us.And most of the time i live with my parents. Feel guilty .But i really don't want to live with her.I t will affect the relationship between my husband and i.