what age do u think they should be to sleep with a boy?or girl?

@paulw33 (297)
United States
April 22, 2009 4:33am CST
well i have a stepdaughter that has a boyfriend she is going to be 17 he is 18 but last weekend he wanted to spend the night i told her only if your going to stay awake and not go to sleep you see i work at night on the computer so im up to keep a eye on things but i told her no way uless they were going to stay awake and watch tv and they said ok then about 6am i got tired and fell asleep then when i did wake up about ten thirty they were both sleeping in the bed not covered together but still i dont think it is right maybe im wrong there are also other kids in the house 2 14 year olds and one 15 year old all girls so i dont think this is right for them to see eather i told my girlfriends mom i dont think it is right and shouldn't be happening am i so wrong or am i right?
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4 responses
ktosea
@ktosea (2025)
• China
22 Apr 09
20 maybe,young people grows up quickly,especially physically and I think you just did teh right thing,they are too naive to know what is real good what is not
paulw33
@paulw33 (297)
• United States
22 Apr 09
true this is my step daughter so i don't handle the decision making well i think of her as my step daughter really though i dont like the idea if it was my real daughter the answer to a boy staying over would be to hell to lol
Ravenladyj
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
22 Apr 09
If they were both fully dressed and just sleeping then I see nothing wrong with it...its perfectly harmless IMO...and in all honesty if you were concerned about it at all then really he shouldnt ahve been allowed to sleep over in the first place...telling him he can but expecting them to stay up all night isnt right or fair IMO....
paulw33
@paulw33 (297)
• United States
22 Apr 09
well i told them if they were going to be watching tv and i didnt want them sleeping together my step daughter said well were not tired and if i get tired i will sleep on the floor well that didn't happen i just didn't think it was right since there are younger kids here u see im only the step dad i do have one daughter that lives here with us she is 14 i have control over her and if she asked for a boy to stay that answer would be to hell to but my girlfriend makes the rules for her daughter i do pay some of the rent here though and think i should have some say who stays or not since this happened i did tell her no more weather or not her mom listens to me is a different story
ninebags
@ninebags (145)
• China
23 Apr 09
You're right, children, especially girls should have sense of protecting themselves.
med889
@med889 (5941)
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22 Apr 09
You are right. You got a point to protect the younger ones.
paulw33
@paulw33 (297)
• United States
22 Apr 09
yup cause they see then what they want to do the same things there sisters are they are supose to look up to there big sister u know thanks for the response