Who should you support, your husband or son?

Thats a hard question to answer because we do not know the situation, First off Parents need to stick together when raising children, because they will try to play one against the other to get what they want. If for some reason i thought my husband was in the wrong, I would talk to him in private, and give him my opinion, so that he could work it out with the child. The only time i think that i would jump into the middle of it is if my husband was abusing, or hitting the child.

I would have to say that it depends on the situation. But what I know is that if I do not agree with my husband I would not let my child know. As parents we need to stand together on parenting. I would pull my husband aside and talk to him and see if a solution could be found. But if I agree with my husband I would stick by him completely.

If I had to side with someone or play referee I'd go with which ever person ws in the right...If my husband is in the right then I'd back him up, but if my son was in the right I'd back him up..I've been in this situation several times with both my kids and my husband and I've always sided with whoever ws in the right....Its the proper thing to do IMO

Wow. That is a tough situation to be in. I guess it would depend on the situation. Often times children go to the other parent wanting things after getting denied by the first parent. Maybe this was the cause of the fight?

I think it's best if you try to understand the situation and hear both sides of the story first. That will give you a strong basis to be able to support the correct person. This will also help you avoid getting into an arguement with either of them. I know it's always hard to try to side with a person in a quarrel espesialy if it's your own family.

hm.. actually I haven't got husband or son.. but if later i came across to this kind of situation, i think I'll support the one who is right. if my son doing wrong thing, I'll support my husband and give some advice to my son.