Whose name is he muttering and Thats not my name!
By kbourgerie
@kbourgerie (8780)
United States
April 25, 2009 3:41am CST
Another sleepless night in Phoenix for me. I'm laying there tossing and turning and people talking in their sleep came to mind. Have you ever listened to your significant other talk in their sleep and wonder whose name they were muttering? Or even worse have you ever had them call you by someone elses name during a moment of intimacy or have you been the guilty party? I admit I did that once. Everything came to a screeching halt as you can well imagine, but I told him I was thinking about the gentleman that had painted our cabinets that day. Don't ask me how I managed to convince him of that. I'm still not sure to this day. LOL.
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@mummymo (23706)
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28 Apr 09
Luckily the only other names that my other half ever mutters in his sleep are the kids and even then he sounds as though he is begging them just to give him a moments peace! lol As for me - I have NEVER muttered anothers name ...or at least not that I know of! xxx
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@kbourgerie (8780)
• United States
29 Apr 09
I'm sure if you had, you would have heard about it.
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@moondancer (7433)
• United States
25 Apr 09
I've not done this and neither has my hubby. But he does talk in his sleep. He has nightmare and works in his sleep. He is telling his guys to do this or that. lol I think it's fuuny but then sometimes he yells at them like they are far away or something, which does fit with some of his work. They are down in holes or on top of tanks. And he uses his legs as if he's walking. Weird huh?
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@moondancer (7433)
• United States
28 Apr 09
You are right on both counts. He is a workaholic and I'd rather have him talk about this than say another womans name.
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@kbourgerie (8780)
• United States
28 Apr 09
Work must be foremost on his mind, which is better than having the name of someone else on the tip of his tongue.
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
27 Apr 09
Personally I don't think it has ever happened here, but I can imagine the shock if it did, and I am not sure what I would think especially if it was someone I knew my husband was good friends with. But if it an accident because of having a Dream about them, that would be a different story.
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@kbourgerie (8780)
• United States
28 Apr 09
You are right if you are going to call out someone elses name at least make sure its someone he doesn't know. LOL.
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
25 Apr 09
I muttered someone else's name once and I was so upset about it more so than my partner was lol.
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@kbourgerie (8780)
• United States
25 Apr 09
SO what did your partner end up saying though?
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
27 Apr 09
first let me say that has never happened to me. i have never called out someone elses name before. and my hubby has not ever called out someone elses name. but i want to know how you got your hubby to buy that bullsh*t story you solid him, cause i got a bridge i need to sell and if he got the money then we need to talk!! LOL LOL LOL
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@kbourgerie (8780)
• United States
28 Apr 09
I'm blonde, but I'm not buying any bridges and how I talked him into it is beyond me. I wish I could tell you my ex has that kind of money, but he doesn't. Sorry. LOL.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
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27 Apr 09
Apart from calling out "Kat" I never mention anyone else's name! LOL. I have sung however, and The Boss mutters, but not anyone's name that I can tell! I am sure that it can be very embarrassing - when my roommate met The Boss for the first time I couldn't remember her name!!! She had to introduce herself to him. It wasn't the last of my indiscretions either! I'll tell you one day. Now budge up will you, it's cold on my side of the bed and your side is warm!!!!!
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@kbourgerie (8780)
• United States
28 Apr 09
Yeah, that probably wasn't such a good moment, forgetting her name. Its almost as bad as calling her by someone elses. And yes, I can't wait to hear about these indiscretions you speak of, in the meantime stop calling out my name! LOL.
@magrylouyu (1627)
• United States
25 Apr 09
I would have to say this is a no on both of our parts. I have listened to my husband talk in his sleep, boy does he do enough of it LOL. As for me, he has never told me anything about while I'm sleeping. During intimacy we both have never had this happen. Thank goodness. I think after 9 years my husband might be a little suspisious.
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@kbourgerie (8780)
• United States
25 Apr 09
9 years is a long time. Yes,no doubt he would be a little suspicious.
