do u share ur unhappy with far away friends ??

April 25, 2009 7:49am CST
I think I dont like sharing my sad things with friends. This period of time, I had a terrible time. I dont have a good job so is my boyfriends. So I avoid to talk with friends or family, ignoring them when I saw them on internet. But I can talk all about this with a friend around me? So once, I dont live the same place I lose my old friends or seldom contect with them.
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4 responses
@dianmelydia (2272)
• Indonesia
25 Apr 09
I think we can't judge our friends all at once. Different person has different influence in our life. According to your question, it should depends on how good your relationship with your far away friends before. Practically we can share anything about your feelings to anyone you wish to do with no matter a new or old friend, close or far away friend. But sometimes we have to hide some privacy so you need to selective before share you feelings with others. I have many far away and 'never meet before' friends such as friends on the internet chatting rooms. I usually share about my daily happened things, my job, etc with them, and they do the same thing with me.
• Singapore
25 Apr 09
i find that i am somehow closer to my online friends than my real life friends. i dunno perhaps its coz i can tell them everythin and anythin and i won't be judged so much?? and from past experiences, my online friends have been there for me more than my friends who are around me physically. my best friend is someone i got to know online who lives in the states and i'm in singapore....i tell him everythin' and anythin' and he don't judge me whatsoever. i love my best friend... :)
@siZidni (1860)
• Indonesia
25 Apr 09
i don't share my condition with friends especially old friend. but i think it can be good if we have big problems, they might have idea to solve it. the idea not to share is they, themselves might have their own problem.
@ralphido (843)
• India
25 Apr 09
well.. sometimes it is easy to share your feelings with some long lost friend you accidently meet on the subway and invite for a coffee than sharing your burden with someone you meet daily.. you feel a lot better when you meet someone from your past.. they mysteriously enlighten your present..